There's a guy I kind of met on a dating website. I saw him at the gym twice already, and I noticed that he noticed me. Should I send him and e-mail - I don't want to come across as desperate?
2006-07-19 05:56:48 · 19 answers · asked by Gillian003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead. What's the harm in simply e-mailing someone? Get a conversation going, it doesn't have to be anything spectacular. Just talk about the gym and it'll eventually lead to deeper discussions. BUT from a guys perspective, don't be persistent! Space out your e-mails. Don't send him like five e-mails a day. Maybe just one or two a week depending on your conversations. Good luck!
2006-07-19 06:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... by approaching a person and chatting especially in the gym would not describe you as desperate!!!! I would call you 'desperate' if you cling on to him and abuse of him without ever letting him go.
If you know his e-mail address, yes why not, send a message. You may want to wait for an opportunity like ......'I did not see you at the gym today, just a thought, anything wrong?'
Let things take their own course - I think the guy would appreciate it more.
Good luck
2006-07-19 06:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i he looked at you in the gym then maybe you should keep on going to that gym and then sooner or later ask him out. I mean if you send him and email being all weird and stuff you are just going to seem like a dweeb so be smart and just walk up to the man.
2006-07-19 06:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. If you see him again at the gym, get the courage to say hi and see if he is interested. If he's seen you and you kind of met on a website, then if he was interested he'd come to you.
2006-07-19 06:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by double0negitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sending an e-mail is not a sign of desperation, it's the content that makes it a sign. if you want to meet this man and talk to him, i suggest you send him an e-mail besides this is the 21st century women can be agressive if they want to be.
2006-07-19 06:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by fenrir_131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u saw him then yeah just send him an email saying u saw him, whats the big deal? but if u met him on a dating thing didnt u plan on meeting him anywayz?
2006-07-19 06:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually email him, nothing serious just see how he is doing and maybe compliment him about something you saw him do in the gym...(guys love to have there egos inflated) then just sit back and see where it goes from there!!
2006-07-19 06:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by summergirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go h3ad it sounds like u both like eachother.. U should get over the fear n do it... U might like the results later on... Good Luck
2006-07-19 06:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by 3ly L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking to him at the gym and ask him if he's like to go out some time..
2006-07-19 05:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't waste your chance. Opportunity comes once in a life time, Yo!
2006-07-19 06:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by Laloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋