there is this girl i really like but im afraid of askin her out because of my friends might think
2006-07-19 05:50:58 · 49 answers · asked by ricardo_a_alvarez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friends aren't the ones that will kiss her! Don't be so stupid of loosing someone you like because of what your friends think. To hell with your friends if they judge you for your personal relationships. Ask her out and don't loose her. A guy that I had a crush on did the same that your asking and he lost me, now he's trying really hard to get me. Don't loose your opportunity.
2006-07-19 05:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I first started dating my husband, his friends told him not to. Not because I was ugly or anything, but they thought I was stealing him away from them. They were petty and I didn't like them. And now 10 years later we are married with 2 children and are extremely happy while 3 of his friends have been in and out of drugs and jail. So do what you want and don't worry about them.
2006-07-19 05:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by kareiokequeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough stuff huh! What I would do is simply get to know her first before you ask her out. Then you can convince your friends that she's a cool person, and perhaps they'll change their minds about her. Besides, they wouldn't be your TRUE friends if they didn't support you. Be strong, like they always say, the worse thing that can happen is she can say no. And as far as your friends are concerned, who cares, if their your friends they'll have to deal with it.
2006-07-19 05:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what... that is call peer pressure. And you don't need this in your life. I you really like that girl, go for it. You never know if this is the one. I know that you will have a better time with her that with your friends... You could learn from her a lot of thing and also the other way. Take a risk and go for it!!!
2006-07-19 05:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by gloribelllebron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made it a habit to ask out any woman I thought was attractive. Odds were good - sure I got turned down at times, but hit pay dirt about 60% of the time
2006-07-19 06:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hesitated asking out a good friend of mine back in high school and years later found out from her parents that she was dieing for me to ask her out. We were both afraid of hurting out friendship. Today she is still not married and I am married, so I guess it was my fortune to be where I am today. But, we could of had a nice time dating. You never know unless you try.
2006-07-19 05:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by JIM S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends tease you about her then they are not really friends at all. If they don't like her and they are supposed to be your friends then they should keep their mouths shut and let you be happy. That is what true friends do. Ask her out either way...don't miss the opportunity to go out with her or then you'll end up regretting it.
2006-07-19 05:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by danie_1024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r acting like a typical guy. Girls hate it. They hate that guys care so much about what their friends think. I think the choice is up to you. But if you really think that you wouldn't be able to deal with your friends teasing I wouldn't ask her. If you break up then any friendships you have could be ruined.
2006-07-19 05:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let fear cause you to lie to yourself or stop something great from happening. I say you tell her how you feel and don't hide your feelings. I know if I was the girl, I would hate to know that a guy didn't tell me he liked me because of friends. Who cares! Better to have told this girl than holding it inside forever!
2006-07-19 05:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do things based on what your friends think you will never being doing what is "best" for you. Ask her out. Your friends can deal with their own feelings.
2006-07-19 05:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋