I am a straight 29 yr-old single male who has never been in a serious relationship and have not even had a girlfriend in quite some time. Almost all of my close friends have recently become engaged (ie. within the last month) or are already married. Should I be concerned ? I mean, I would like nothing better than to be in a loving and long-term relationship but I just can't seem to find the right woman. Plus, it doesn't help that I don't get that many opportunities to meet women. Starting to wonder whether bachelorhood is all its cracked up to be ...
Thanks in advance for your time and opinion.
2006-07-19 05:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by aheidema 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Have you consider dating out of your race? I have met so many interesting people who are culturally different from me. It makes the relationship interesting and exciting...plus you would be learning something new. I think you should consider it.
2006-07-19 05:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure about your spiritual condition, but a great place to meet girls is in church. You find a better quality person than in a bar or through a service and these are generally from more stable homes with great families. Sure, every now and then you will meet a dud, but for the most part, the relationship will last longer and be more honest.
2006-07-19 05:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one rule to follow here. Take a look and see what your behavior pattern is.
Are you sitting at home, when you get off work, or do you come home, take a shower and go out to find people. The best days to do this are Wed, Fri, Sat.
Buy these books and learn what you are doing wrong, in oder to get what you want, you need to take on the attitude of, GO GET IT!
It's just like hunting, go where the wildlife is, stop sitting at home, life will just pass you by.
2006-07-19 05:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you sound like a really decent guy and that you need to be patient. Don't push for a commited relationship just becasue everyone else is in one. Look for what's right for you or just sit back and quit stressing. It'll come when it is ready. That girl you want is out there.
2006-07-19 05:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by hope m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not interested in anyone dont force yourself to be, its not all that bad being single if you cant find the right person you want to be with. dont worry and when the time comes it will, maybe you should find more opportunities to meet more women you you might find the right one.
2006-07-19 05:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friends have settled down does not mean you have to. Everyone does things at their own speed. Your time will come, there's no time limit on love.
2006-07-19 05:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by ladychineen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem but i'm only 23. and yes being single sucks, especially when i'm hotter than all my married or engaged friends, i just don't understand why.
2006-07-19 05:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, you know whats more sad? Being in a relationship with someone & still being lonely.
2006-07-19 06:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met the right person yet...keep your chin up she's out there right now probably looking for you!
2006-07-19 05:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's right around the corner.........
2006-07-19 05:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by THE Jester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋