known th greatest guy 4 5 mths now, I'm so crazy about him, but not sure how he feels about me............
2006-07-19 05:39:55 · 36 answers · asked by dazed.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy your feeling richly m'lady.
But dont call it fate......... there is no destiny outside the one in your eyes.
Each moment we choose.
The next moment .............we choose again.
2006-07-19 05:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 15⤊ 8⤋
I believe in fate, If I hadn't gone through with all my other past relationships, and ended up where I was I wouldn't have found the love of my life. I had just been broken up with and a week later my friend begged me to come drive three hours to come visit here and have some drinks on them. I wasn't really in the mood to go out there or had the money, but I did. That's where I met my guy that I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. When we first met, we knew nothing about each other and after a week of dating we felt like we had known each other for a long time and it was so comfortable to be together since the first day. Were still together and loving ever minute of it. Hey what would have happened if I didn't go visit my friend? Who knows but I'm happy and in love and that's all that matters.
2006-07-19 05:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by HotTherapist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, there is no such thing as love at first sight; that is merely sexual attraction and can be quite powerful. Real love takes time and only reveals itself when things are bad, such as when a partner grows sick or you lose a job and are unemployed for years.
Secondly, if you're not sure about how the object of your obssession feels about you, then it's unlikely he feels anything. Have you made any effort to make him aware that you even exist?
2006-07-19 05:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fate of course and love at first sight I am almost positive the answer is no. I am starting to believe that true love in a romantic type of relationship does not exist. If you wanna know how he feels about you ask him and tell him what you feel. I know that you probably have not done it because you are afraid that the feeling is not mutual, well lets just say that it isn't that will save you a lot of time effort and possibly pain. You want to love and be loved you have to be willing to take some risks.
2006-07-19 05:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
urm, no. Love at 1st sight does not exist. LUST at 1st sight is quite common. True love develops only with getting to know the other person. That initial overwhelming feeling you're experienceing, lasts no more than 18 months. After that, it settles into a deep, friendship bond. SO, when that initial flush wears off, you better darned well like the person you're with! lol. Unfortunately, most young people don't understand that today.
2006-07-19 05:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by Quietman40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is fate and Yes there is love at first site Me and my husband are marks of this... We feel in Love the very first time we saw each other and married six months after that and eventually we had a child that We just Love and ardor....So I know if I hadn't gone to that place that day at the time I had gone I would have never met him and we wouldn't have our child...
2006-07-19 05:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's LUST and there's INFATUATION at first sight. Love comes with time and knowledge and sometimes is a raging fire and sometimes is an ember waiting to be fanned again, but lasts through thick and thin. Lust and infatuation die down and go away, but love will last even if you are not with that other person! True love just wants the other person to be happy, no matter what that takes.
2006-07-19 05:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by themom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no love at 1st site. If there was, the world would be much different.
Hey, if you really like him, keep staying friends and, as tempting as it is, try not to show your deeper feelings right now. If you stay good friends, you should be able to find out if he likes you too.
2006-07-19 05:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people call it fate... others karma or destiny.. I believe that their is a higher purpose to everyone's life... as far as love at first sight... I fell in love with someone before I ever saw him... I had only heard his voice... 5 years later I am still in love with him...
2006-07-19 05:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is such thing. You've been mad over the guy for how long?! You need to find out what he thinks about you before your emotions get out of hand.
2006-07-19 05:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is attraction at first site... you know you see someone and it makes you say "Whoa" but not love honey. Love grows with time. Getting to know a person. Getting to know their cute little ways and their bad sides too. LOVE IS A FEELING THAT CAN ONLY GROW DEEPER WITH THE TIME SPENT TOGETHER AND THE EMOTIONS THAT ARE SHARED
2006-07-19 05:45:09 · answer #11 · answered by sweet lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋