Would you believe your bf and have sex with him for the first time without condoms?
I'm allergic to the latex, and in my case I only have been with one person. I do believe he has more than one.
What do you guys think?
2006-07-19 05:29:46 · 71 answers · asked by Sweet Papayita :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must add that we had never been together in that way...
and also I need advice how to ask him to make the test without offend him, cause Im using birth control since ever I think...
thank you guys
2006-07-19 05:42:15 · update #1
I would go and test first. See if he has no deseases. Then you might try, but remember that even if he is clean, you might get pregnant. Plus he might not agree to have sex without condome for the same reason. But you should talk anyway. See what you can agree on.
2006-07-19 05:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Belarus94 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... NO.... I would suggest to go get some natural condoms or some that are not made out of latex...
If nothing else, get on Birth Control... But I wouldn't suggest to have sex with him without using a condom, expecially the first time...
2006-07-19 05:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being pressured. Forget this guy. He'll leave after. Listen carefully. Tell him you are waiting to get married. This is so common, and classic. So many young women get pregnant out of weddlock and the guy goes into denial and walks.
You are not suffering anything here, he is. This guy is a con artist.
Once you start, then the flood gates will be open and he won't stop until you get pregnant.
Don't be a his fool. If you get pregnant then what? He will blame you for the rest of your life.
Wait for marriage. Stand your ground and don't have sex until you are ready.
Take a birth control class or something. This is ridiculous.
2006-07-19 05:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a big step being a young person or mature in age. Sex with someone new is always a risk, and should be conducted safely. There are alternatives to latex, so please look into them. As time goes on and you two become to know each other better and more tusting, then you may consider the aspect of absent condom.
2006-07-19 05:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cronus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other condoms than latex. You need to reserch it but I would definatley protect myself no matter what the guy said unless it's a very seriouse relationship where you feel there may not be anyone else after wards. But if you aren't that commited, I say find a non latex condom..
2006-07-19 05:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get condoms that aren't made out of latex, go into the drugstore and ask for some latex free condoms. They will point you in the right direction.
2006-07-19 05:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by nick m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.......YEAH Right!
You're about to have SEX without a Condom, and you saying you've been with only One person.
"Can I be the Second person?"
I am allergic to Latex also, Can I have sex with you in the skin? You're not allergic to the Skin are u? I think I love you!
2006-07-19 05:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are condoms you can use out there even though you are allergic to latex. My personal favorite are polyurethane condoms made by Trojan. They are a little more expensive, but not to bad. Do not take chances with sexually transmitted diseases or getting pregnant, you will not like the outcome!
2006-07-19 05:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by 2hot2handle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy non-latex condoms.
Sex without condoms is better than with, but it opens you up to all sorts of risks. Don't try it until you're in a committed relationship for a long time, and you trust the person you're with.
Better to have so-so sex with someone who's HIV negative, than to have mindblowing sex with a guy who's HIV positive.
2006-07-19 05:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dan w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I am glad your being careful, But You do NEED to use a condom, every single time, NO EXCEPTIONS! At least until marriage. They make latex free condoms go to your local pharmacy, planned parenthood or doctor and they can hook you up with latex free condoms.!!
GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-19 05:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by aqurious_chic06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋