i need to know how to say sorry with out making it obvious!
2006-07-19 05:23:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can say sorry by either leaving him alone or getting on your knees. You've already proven you have no trust in him so leave him be.
2006-07-19 05:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about it being an obvious apology or not? You accused him of something he didn't do...therefore you essentially told him you don't trust him or believe him, then you poured salt in the wound by breaking up with him.
Sweetheart, you owe him the biggest most sincerest apology you can muster!
Think of it this way. How should he apologize to you had he falsely accused you of cheating and then broke up with you? Once you answer that question...that is how you should apologize to him. I'm thinking on hands and knees.
2006-07-19 05:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by BlueFire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll come out eventually anyway, so tell him the truth...apologize for being mistrusting and let him know what caused you to feel that way...COMMUNICATE! If you can't be honest and up front with him, then the relationship was (or is) doomed anyway...
...and learn this lesson...before you make judgements and decisions in the future, be more sure of your facts or information...if he doesn't care to reconcile you'll have tossed away your relationship for nothing...
2006-07-19 05:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without making it obvious? My, my...how self centered we are. You made a false accusation based upon what I haven't a clue. Yet you took some half-assed information and acted upon it without even verifying if it was false or truth.
Quite frankly, were I your boyfriend...sorry...ex-boyfriend...I'd tell you to drop dead.
How to say sorry without being obvious. Bah! Welcome to the ranks of people who won't take responsibility for their actions...even when they are in the wrong.
I hope you'll teach your kids better than this when and if you get married and have any.
2006-07-19 05:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were obviously wrong. Show some compassion for your boyfriend (former or not), show him a little respect and if you really want him to forgive you then make your apology obvious.
Nothing is worse than the "I'm sorry but...' It means your not really sorry at all.
2006-07-19 05:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were wrong, you should take responsibility for it and acknowledge it like an adult. By trying to skirt the issue in order to preserve your fragile ego, you're only stunting yourself from an important lesson and a moment or real growth.
If you insist on being sneaky about it, I hope he's smart enough to leave you in Dumpville.
2006-07-19 05:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Make It Stop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I' m sorry, but from my lifelong experiences w/dating...and jealousy...I would probably be thankful if he even remained friends. An accusation like that is harsh. Get on w/ life and don't dwell. Once feelings change, it's hard to turn them in your favor again. Believe me i'm nearly 50 and i'm experiencing it now. Change your attitude young and try to do better next time..Patterns repeat themselves..change now...No one told me anything when i was young and i've been doing similar repeats always........Good Luck.....Respect yourself.....no one else will until you do first.....
2006-07-19 05:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you have to forgive yourself. now, what you have to do is find out if %100 you were wrong (from my own experiense!), then if you find out that you were wrong, explain the situation to him and tell him how you really feel, and explain to him that that is how women work, when we really love a man we need to know that he is only ours, and if for some reason our sensourse teel us that there might be another women we flip out and acuse as apose to checking it out first or aproaching and disscusing it.
good luck and i hope this ends well for you.
2006-07-19 06:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all alway get proof first before broke up but now maybe it to later he mitt have a gf by now but try to talk to him and say that your friend told you that he was cheated on you
2006-07-19 05:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it couldn't been much bond there in the first place...
because you thought!!! you dumped him ...
do the right thing ...say you are sorry .say you thought he was
having it of with someone else ..say you been a suspicious cow
and ask him to forgive you and say you never believe that jargon again
2006-07-19 05:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋