my bf is talking to an enemy of mine. i know how her mind works, and i know that she is out to steel my bf. yet my bf finds her fun and tells me that i shouldn't worry because he loves me. but she keeps flirting with him! what should i do?
2006-07-19 05:11:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats pretty messed up, this girl must have done something bad to you if she is your enemy and your bfren keeps talking to her. that not cool, doesnt he love you??? honestly i wouldnt talk to that girl if i was him. besides the fact that shes your enemy it also seems like he likes her flirting with him. you need to get this guy straight.
2006-07-19 05:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by joe luis 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you can do now, is be as sweet as honey, you catch more flies that way. She is playing you right into her hands, if you keep making derogatory and negtive comments about her he is going to see her as the fun one, and you as the negative, angry one.
So become fun, and even better include her in some activities, her true colors will eventually come out, if not, you had to be friends before you became enemies, (nothing is more fragile than the line between love and hate) so maybe you can reconnect with her, and a new friendship can be born.
2006-07-19 12:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Holly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worrying about this means that
1) you don't trust this other girl ***AND***
2) you don't trust your boyfriend
Ever heard the phrase "it takes two to tango"? She can try everything in her bag of tricks to steal him away, but she won't succeed if he doesn't want to be stolen away. If he starts looking like he's flirting back, then you have a right to complain and ask him to handle things differently, but if she's doing all the flirting and he's not reacting to it at all, then take that for what it is - one of the strongest signs you'll ever get that he really cares about you. YOU.
2006-07-19 12:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot dictate who another person's friends are, but it is disrespectful of him to spend time with someone he knows you dislike and who he knows may do unkind things to spite you...make sure he's aware of how her flirting causes you to feel, especially since your bf apparently doesn't discourage it...
If she's able to lure him away, then he wasn't all that into you to begin with...that's not a comforting thought, I know...but if he was truly into your relationship others wouldn't be a threat...
2006-07-19 12:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody "steals" someone's BF. If you BF really loves you, then he will not give into temptation. If he leaves you for her, then he didn't really love you, and you are better off without him.
2006-07-19 12:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, DONT start nagging every minute and complaining to him about her. Your should tell him why u and her are enemies;he should know. but she cant get him if didnt already want to be got! Remember that!
2006-07-19 12:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by Wyld_Chic718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be the adult in this he will respect you more than her on this also keep your close eye on her and you will be able to stop it before hand, dont let them know this but also dont go crazy snoopin and spyin on em cause he will know and feel you dont trust him, he will find out what shes up to and if he picks her then he loses not you, dont need someone like that,just relax and let it fold out, good luck hope it folds you way
2006-07-19 12:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can steal your bf if both of u really love each other
try to tell ur problem
if he doesnt listen try to split him from her or
leave him &find some one else
2006-07-19 12:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by vishnu_mallina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know what you know, that you know what she is trying to do, and he should repsect that and your wishes,at the same time you have to trust him and believe that he wnats to be with you, and no one can steal anyone away from you, if he leaves it is of his own conviction.
2006-07-19 12:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you have the world with you which u need to use it intelligently. I am hot & sizzling why not use me against him to get your by or stay put with me in case if he is not interedted in u
2006-07-19 12:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋