can you help me?

Question

ok well im 19 years old and im going to 20 in 5 months do you think i should move out, from my moms house?

Answer 1

Stay home as long as you can. Save money!

Do things you want to do before you saddle yourself with a big fat monthly rent bill!

Answer 2

I wonder what your situation is? Do you go to school? If not I would consider attending a junior college. Whether you stay at home or move out, college is your best bet for opening your mind and meeting new people who can share their views of the world with you thus, helping you to develop your own. What ever you do ,do not do what I did which was to support myself by working a 9 to 5 job, partying and then deciding ten years later to go back to school. I'm glad that I did go back but my life would have been so much different if I would have gone to college at your age. If you're worried about how to pay for school there is financial aid available.

Answer 3

Only because of 2 reasons - 1)you can afford to move out because you have a job and your responsible enough to be on your own and 2) because your parents told you to get going.... If both reasons are inapplicable, then I strongly suggest you stay home and help out your mom with the chores and the cooking and whatever it is she might need you for. If you can find a job, help with home expenses as well.

Answer 4

I wouldn't. Save money, do things you may not get to do later, etc...Besides, your 19, and I will almost bet money you will not marry your current bf. You both will change over time. Don't move out just for some guy that may not be there in 5 more months.

Answer 5

Its not an age thing. It is more of a "am I ready?" thing than anything else. I moved out of my parent's home when I was 16. I returned when my mother was in her eighties, to care for my mother before she died, now, I'm back in the same house.

I was told during a very intense argument that under my parent's roof I had to abide by their rules, so when I was convinced I could take care of myself and support myself, I left. I had a job and found roommates that took me in.

Realize that you still have your parents as a support system, but consider all contingencies if they will not be a support system.

Answer 6

Why would you? Has she asked you to move out? Do you have a job? Can you support yourself? I am sure no mother would want to see their child male or female struggling. Also, if you do have a job but not enough to be on your own and you feel like you want to act responsible, then contribute something towards the house; i.e., rent, groceries, bills, etc. She will certainly appreciate the help.

Answer 7

This all depends on you and how u feel ,if you have a good relationship with your family and your happy why would you want to? As of now your still very young and will have plenty of time to move on on your own,maybe also now you could think of the financial outlook of it ,u could start to save in the meantime, and be ready if you really decide to make that decision.

Answer 8

No. If you are working part time, going to college part time and contributing to your mom's home - no. Save your money.

However, if you have the means to move out and be on your own it is a feeling like no other. Independence builds character.

Answer 9

I think you need to be independent but things are so expensive these days don't rush and move out and be in debt and struggling and then have to move back in and then it will look like you can't take care of your self. If she is not rushing you take your time and save your money get a nice job. But don't be there forever!!! girls don't really like that ...

Answer 10

I would say if your parents are OK with you
still staying home till you can move out on
your own stay with your parents. But if you feel
like you can not follow the your parents rules
for their home any longer and you feel you have
out grown their rules its time for you to look for
your own place. This way you can still have a good relationship with your parents.

Answer 11

No, don't move out unless she has asked you to or unless you are getting married. It doesn't hurt to stay at home. I stayed at home until I got married and that was when I was 25. Actually we had to move back to my parents home since we were married. Now that I do not recommend. But if you have to, just do it as temporary time that you can.