2006-07-19 05:06:42 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do nothing about it, talking doesn't hurt anything...
2006-07-19 05:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by just me being me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With such a wonderful name, Tara (the seat of the Kings of Ireland), I would have thought that you would have more sense to expect boys not to talk to other girls. If he was only talking to boys, I would begin to worry. He is entitled to do so and you must accept the fact. Otherwise, jealousy will creep in and you will feel the true pain that it brings upon you. Have faith and trust in your boyfriend and don't try to tie him to your apron strings.....
As the old Irish Priest used to say: 'It makes no difference where you work up an appetite, so long as you have all your meals at home'..............
2006-07-19 05:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he talk to them as friends talk or is he flirting? We all talk to people, regardless the gender. He has probably always talked to girls and he is "your" boyfriend, right.?. Don't get jealous unless he is truly doing something that is harmful to your relationship. Get to know these girls too. That way you are out in front as his girl. You may be surprised. You may like them too and want to become friends also. This will give you guys a mutual circle of friends. Good Luck and stay confident.
2006-07-19 05:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by banshera2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could try talking to other dudes, but that only brings baggage and more drama into the relationship. Obviously he wants some kind of attention, so just see, what it is that keeps him talking to other girls then that way you can set up a way for him to talk to you more. It might have something to do with communication. I'm going thru that myself.
2006-07-19 05:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by itmmotif88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to other girls too! And other guys. And anyone else to whom you feel like talking. It's absolutely crucial to your sanity that you continue to maintain interpersonal connections to people other than your boyfriend. For one, it should help give you an idea of just how harmless that talking probably is - if YOU can talk to other boys and have no desire to leave your boyfriend for them, then can you REALLY believe that every girl to whom he talks is a potential threat to your relationship? (Hint: if the answer is yes, you're going to be very miserable in any romantic relationship.)
2006-07-19 05:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's not going to stop, so you may as well get you some guy friends as well. And see how he likes that. If he doesn't mind then everything is probably on the up and up, but if he complains, it's probably because he knows what he's doing with the girls he talks to.
2006-07-19 05:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him honestly how u feel about it, that u dont feel comfortable when he talks to other girls that way... coz im sure u wont get intimidated if its just a talk.. talk talk and not a flirting talk... its always best to be honest with our feelings or we will have to bare with it our whole life. If he dont respect your feelings then, look into the situation very carefully, think if he is right or wrong with his reasoning, if u think he is wrong or is just making excuses, then trust your instincts. He might not be the type of guy who can be faithful to u.
2006-07-19 05:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's he talking about? There's no reason he cannot talk with other girls or have female friends, as long as the talk isn't inappropriate in context, or leads to behavior that isn't kosher for someone in a relationship with another person.
Do nothing if the talk is just casual talk...no reason it should bother you.
2006-07-19 05:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a little confused... do you mean flirt with other girls or just talk? Flirting is uncool, but talking is talking. Nothing bad about that. I don't know about you, but if it were me... I wouldn't want someone trying to alienate me from my friends.
2006-07-19 05:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by jandhmcadams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant seriously expect him to avoid all females the rest of his life just because he is with you. If he is not over stepping the line between friends and lovers with these other girls then you need to let it go. If he his then you need to let him go
2006-07-19 05:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by miracle man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. Talk to other boys, and he may get the hint.
Does he need to talk to others because he craves variety? Give him variety! (Dress up, role-play, etc...)
Does he need to talk to others because he craves intellectual stimulation he's not getting from you? Bone up on intellectual issues you know he cares about. Carry on conversation with him - about topics he enjoys!
2006-07-19 05:11:37 · answer #11 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋