i have never beleaved in it never had what people call love and never felt it
2006-07-19 04:57:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but im am almost 30
2006-07-19 06:38:48 · update #1
Love isn't a belief , you can't make yourself believe in it.
When love shows , you will know and all you have to do is open your heart to it , and let it in.
2006-07-20 21:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not something that you make yourself believe in. You just know it is there. You can experience love in many different ways. The love of a friend who is there when you need them, to laugh with or cry with or just to listen. The love of a parent or sibling when they hug you or kiss you goodnight, even when they make you do something that you don't really want to but they know it's best for you to help you grow and be a better person. Or the love of a pet who will love you unconditionally no matter what kind of mood you're in. They will be there for you through thick and thin, to love you and ask for nothing in return but just to be loved back. Then there is the physical love you feel for another person. I don't know how old you are but you will know this love when the time is right. You don't make yourself feel it, you let yourself feel it. Open your heart and it will find you.
2006-07-19 12:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by blocheredna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has many meanings....
Theres the love you have for family and friends...not too complicated but just right when you mesh with them...if possible
Then theres the love with a significant other....if you havent experienced it it's because you havent met a great enough person who deserves your love. Even then, it doesnt have to be the right person that you fall in love with. Sometimes you love a person but they just arent right for you. Then from there, you learn to forgive and you end up gaining a new experience where you know what to look for in a new person to experience this love with. Some times we tend to ignore the love we have for others to hide from hurt and pain. Sometimes, we just need to give love to people who need to feel the love you need to feel too! It's give and take....it's sacrifices and being considerate....never too selfish. Truth is, love is such a complicated thing and it comes at any given time. You don't have to believe in the word...Believe in the feeling. Love is great but only with the person or people that you truly feel are worth your while....you know?
I don't know which love you havent experienced but I can tell you this. If the love you havent experienced is the family one...then no worries because the other love will fill that void in. And vice versa for the other scenario.
Take care...
2006-07-19 12:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Cloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal u don't make yourself beleave in love,u realize its love when you've found the person that makes u feel like the world around is made out of chocolate,than you'll know it's love,you won 't have to make yourself beleave.
2006-07-19 12:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by coconut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends, if you've been hurt many times than you'd need to put that in the past and approach things with an open mind, and maybe you're too picky, but the only thing I could tell you is that love is a feeling like no other, when you feel that person makes you better and stronger and when you feel that your life is incomplete without them that's love.
2006-07-19 12:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by frank71175 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love is something that grows inside of you and needs to come out when is big enough. There's a lot different ways of love: love to your mom, dad, gramdparents, sisters, brothers, cousins.... thats incoditional love... you love them cause they are family. Love to your friends, to your lover is totally different cause is something they earn.
If you never felt love means you're death inside, everyone feels love in different ways and express it in different way also.
Try to make up your mind. And remember is not what people tell you to feel, it is a feeling you only can feel.
2006-07-19 12:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Papayita :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you take down the barriers and Let yourself feel loved then everything else will fall in place !!Love comes in different shapes sizes and forms it's a beautiful thing to experience!!!!
2006-07-19 12:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not something that can be explained, and it is different for everyone. It really is one of those "if you feel it, you'll know it" kinds of things. Beyond that, all I can say is to keep yourself open to the possibilities. As long as you are open to it, you never know where or when you will find it.
2006-07-19 12:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl,
Love is absolute selflessness and unconditional. When you do something for someone and don't expect anything back - that's love.
When someone does something for you and you say thanks - that's love.
When you can't stop thinking of someone - a friend, boyfriend, parent, cousin, grandparent - and want to help, do something for them, that's love.
I'm sure you've felt it. Though most of our society today is really oblivious to what LOVE really is.
Love is not SEX. Love is giving. Totally giving. And being able to take back when given.
Hope this helps... Also, I wish you love!
2006-07-19 12:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should wait until you meet the right person to accutaly feel and understand the word love... i mean you dont just look at somone and say "I love them" you have to wait and it doesnt always happen but you will know when you find the right guy. take care
2006-07-19 11:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by *~BabiGurl~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋