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2006-07-19 04:52:35 · 35 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah. I was going out with a guy for a while, and he got engaged to someone else while going out with me. I found out from his sister's friend. She rang me and told me that he didn't want to talk to me again and not to contact him.
2006-07-19 04:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by needs_a_shrink1988 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did. My girlfriend and I had a pretty strong relationship going and then out of nowhere she dumped me. I tried to work things out and get back together with her but she just wouldn't budge. Strange thing though, I didn't realize that I was truly in love w/ her until AFTER she broke up w/ me. And then I had high hopes for a long time that I would run into her in the near future and sparks would fly again. Then I heard that she had gotten married to some guy three years ago. So, all this time I've had her picture in my bedroom and thought about her all the time and then I hear she got married. Then, my heart broke in two a second time. But then at least, I knew there was no chance I had w/ getting back w/ her and that I had to move on w/ my life. I still think about her once in a while. But the marriage thing pretty much ruined that.
2006-07-19 05:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Sad to say it's sometimes a part of love and dating. Give it time. It DOES get better! It's just hart to know when.
I was once MISERABLE after a break-up. My heart had been broken into no less than 6 pieces! Well, some time passed and I went to see a movie. Laughed so hard I thought I was going to split in two. The point being that enough time had passed and I was able to feel good again. Things just sort of fell into place. Good luck.
2006-07-19 05:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I was in a relationship that could not be mended. The guy would kick me and my child out repeatedly if things didn't go his way. Considering that I didn't have anywhere to go, I struggled to hang on to that relationship like crazy. I didn't have friends because the relationship completely consumed me. I know now that it was one of the stupidest things I could have done. (especially for my child) As we all know hindsight is 20/20.
I know that relationship is one of my largest regrets. What an idiot I was!! Many years have passed and I am now married to a man I love very much. It's true that you know when it's the right person. You don't feel like you are 'settling'. I have learned people can't simply force a relationship to work... it won't.
2006-07-19 05:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by jandhmcadams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it is a horrible feeling that at the time you think you will never get over. If this is happening to you at this moment, I am so sorry that you are going through that.
Keep in mind that time heals all wounds even if it doesn't feel like it, and when you are in such a weak and venerable state we have tendency's to do incredibly stupid things, please resist those feelings because those are truly the things that will haunt and follow is the rest of our lives.
Stay strong and do something productive to keep your mind off the hurt. Good luck
2006-07-19 04:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh absolutely, I spent all of my teenage years and most of my early 20's with a broken heart.
I actually recommend getting your heart broken and alot. It's the only way to find out what you really want out of a relationship. I am now happily married to a man that is litterally my dream come true.
all that hurt will turn into something positive.
2006-07-19 04:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Holly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes My heart was completely broken and it happend a while back ago and I still cry on ocassion. She could have said sure I'll go out on a date with you but noooooo she had to find some 22 year old crack head who was still in the 10th grade and she was a freshman.
2006-07-19 04:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tony B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Unfortunately, a part of life. I've hurt so bad that I could not keep food down, couldn't breathe right, and felt litterally sick - like my entire insides were being ripped out of me. Horrible feeling, but it passes with time. Still feel a little pang of it every now and then, but my life is much better now.
2006-07-19 04:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we've all that happen...the important thing is that you pick up the pieces and move forward....and don't think that you said or did anything wrong to cause it....it happens to us all...just an unfortunate part of life. All you can do is learn something from it...and realize that life will get better.
2006-07-19 04:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it the worst feeling i ever had in my life it took me about 6 month to get over it .after that i was very very careful about opening my heart up to any one be careful in the future dont let this happen to you again in les you are sure.you met the right man.
2006-07-19 04:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,Try having your heart shattered in millions of pieces!!!! Yes I've been through it all but in the long run it makes you stronger!
2006-07-19 04:57:29 · answer #11 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋