I am separated from my husband and he is married to someone but not happy. anyway, he told me he should have married me b4 my husband and i responded well why did you get married he stated" it would not be fair to you for me to say because you married to "clown" and she was pregnant? How would you perceive this answer? We still secretly see each other and we even talk about marriage in the future. but you know how guys are what do you think ??????
2006-07-19 04:47:56 · 32 answers · asked by spoiled r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He felt obligated to marry this other women because he got her pregnant, but he likes you better.
2006-07-19 04:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a guy's point of view, I think your b/f is just so frustrated with the fact that he is living with someone he doesn't want to be with. That's probably why he called your husband a "clown." The fact that he said the reason he married his wife was because she was pregnant isn't the smartest thing to do, especially if two people aren't in love, but that's what he did and now he's probably regretting it. Give him some time I guess, but then again if he ever got a divorce and you were still only separated from your husband, it would be your move. Choose to stay w/ your husband or not. I don't have any answers for you there.
2006-07-19 04:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are saying, that you are currently married but separated from your husband and you have a boyfriend (which you dated before you married your husband) If that is correct , then you should think twice before you act. First you have a husband whom you married for some apparent reason and he deserves for you to be honest with him. Second your boyfriend has a wife and a child. That is something you have to think about, it is a package deal. You take him and he have to take the child and along comes problems with the baby's momma!!!!
2006-07-19 05:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ladyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im thinking if hes still married stay out of it until he gets a divorce or at least gets separated from his wife.Why would you want to be with someone who cheats on his wife that could be you someday if you were to marry him.Wake up and smell the coffee!
2006-07-19 04:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by symbawyo69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he still had feelings for you but felt obligated to marry due to her being pregnant. I think you should take some time and think about it, if you read between the lines you can see he's having the best of both worlds. I think you know you deserve better.
2006-07-19 04:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd perceive it as he got this woman pregnant and felt he had to marry her.
He thinks your husband is a clown.
2006-07-19 04:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player and a liar..what a loser!1 Dump him, stay single for a while, finalize your divorce and tell your bf that he can come back when he gets a divorce!! Stop the insanity!!
2006-07-19 04:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you all need to lay off the moonshine, get divorced and go back to your own separate trailers where you might be able to avoid ruining anyone elses lives.
2006-07-19 07:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was is das? Ze ozza peple? Youz betta leern ze Englisch as I could not uundershtand!
2006-07-19 04:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by apakejadahnyaini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still saw my ex husband for a very long time behind my mans back, so i think thats okay, but i don't totally understand the question
2006-07-19 04:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋