My friends cousin siad I looked hot at a party. He has slow danced with me at a party because me friend asked him to. If he called me hot and I like him am I suppose to ask him out, I don't know because he has never call me hot or even said he liked me as more then a friend. But this changes the whole game. I'm scared to ask him out because if he says no then I'll feel so stupid and be kinda upset. Tell me what to do!?!?! Oh yeah he is 16 going on 17 and I'm 13 going on 14.
2006-07-19 04:40:56 · 23 answers · asked by Fragile;; Heart;; ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have always dated older guys. I advise you to do what your heart tells you. If you like him ask him out. If he wants sex tell him your not ready and dump him do not give in I meet my husband when i was 13 and he was 17 but if they really care about you they will stay no matter what. just don't give in to sex!!!! He will think your easy and dump you.
2006-07-19 04:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by mmcclaskey31516 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1)You turned him on at the party. That's all. Don't try to read a guy's mind. If he likes you and wants to date you, he'd tell you that. Please, he's seventeen not seven. Also, a friend asked him to slow dance with you. If he liked you, he would have done it himself. He has a mouth. Don't be fooled.
2) Three years, especially three guy years, are way too much for a fourteen year old girl to handle. He has seen and done a lot more than you might. Please take it easy. If you want to date, find someone close to your age. 13-15. Or better, wait. Read books about dating. As corny as it sounds, you will learn a lot and will be prepared for the dating game.
3) Lastly: If A Guy Likes You, He Will Tell You. Some how, through friends, notes, online. He'd tell you. So don't assume anything. You'll get hurt if you're always assuming.
2006-07-19 12:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, Don't, any guy that tells a girl she's hot and will try to do anything to get in her pants and considering you a minor and he's got another year to be an adult it would be trouble.
Just don't do anything you don't want to do until your a few more years older. He may be alot smarter than you at the moment with what he knows and your vulnerable to that.
Any17 year old knows that he should not approach girls your age. What happens if you two engage into sexual intercourse, your parents may then be at rival and your friends will turn your back on you and such. High school is peer pressure of every possible thing and don't give in.
2006-07-19 11:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by deviousbeautifulangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date at 13 even if you can. Even if lots of guys think you're "hot." When I was 13, I had guys in their 20's ask me out. I'm so thankful that my parents wouldn't let me date until I was 16. Even then, I sometimes got into situations that were "bad news" where I wasn't sure what to do.
2006-07-19 11:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His statement you are "hot" refers to a look - not you as a person. It is about sex. You are 13. You have all your life to be grown up - let's say you live to 83. You want to grow up NOW, that would give you 80, get this " 8 0 " years to be grown up.
Be a kid for as long as you can. Don't rob yourself of some of the best fun years of your life because some guy says you're hot.
2006-07-19 11:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then ask him. If he says no, big deal. Move on. But just because he said your hot doesn't mean that he likes you to go out with you.
2006-07-19 11:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not ask him out. too old for you! i mean yes when you're older a guy you marry can be 3 years older. but you're just starting the dating business and it isn't completely serious dating. so you're in like 7 th grade or something and he's in like 11th grade. talk about a difference in age. i recommend staying with people your age and the same experience as you.
2006-07-19 11:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by complete_shopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old for you
Go out with cute boys your own age
Don't ask him out even if he is your age.
It is not good for a young girl like you to ask boys out.
YOU will feel better not running after him. (Girls feel better if the BOY asks them out.)
In your message you said he never called you hot or even said he liked you.
Better friends first. Plenty of time. Why the rush.
good luck.
2006-07-19 11:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Balaboo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I told a girl she was hot constantly, I would want to go out with her. But at least I would have the guts to ask her out my self instead of dropping hints for the girl to ask me out.
Ask him out anyway.
2006-07-19 11:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Blowupman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If he likes you, he will approach you.
I personally think that is too big of an age difference for you. 3 years in your teens is a big deal. But it's up to you.
2006-07-19 11:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋