God I cant stand that lady
2006-07-19 04:39:45 · 16 answers · asked by iam_joann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok just so you people know i have been on my own since i was 12 now im 28 and the lady think she runs my house.
2006-07-19 04:49:34 · update #1
i dunno. i don't know yo mama!
2006-07-19 04:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Brittany♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand that something has fueled your anger at her. If nothing else, begin with giving her the respect due her for carrying you for nine or so months (not an easy task), and pushing you out (a much more difficult task), and for rearing you to the point where you are now.
The relationship between mothers and daughters is a very unique and sometimes difficult one filled with many mixed emotions. There are so many undercurrents at play that many books have been written on the subject. Apparently, you are going through a time where you don't see eye to eye nor do you seem to have much in common with one another. Over time, you will find that this is an illusion, as you will find that it's your similarities that create the conflicts more than any perceived differences you have.
I speak from experience. As a now-47 year old woman, I can look back on the period of great conflict I had with my mother between my ages of 14-18. I could not wait to move out and live on my own. Thankfully, I had the opportunity to go away to school for a year. Immediately following, I moved into my own apartment, never again to live under my mother's roof. As she saw that I could conduct my life as an adult, she began to respect my opinion, and to even rely on me.
Our relationship has really grown and become enriched, as we have shared experiences with each other. Now that she is approaching 75, I don't know that I am prepared to lose my mother. Prepared or not, I know that the time will eventually come.
Repair your relationship with your mother. Soon enough, there will come a time when you won't have her, but you will wish you did.
2006-07-19 11:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, you are probably about 14 or 15, right?
Yes, you're mom is probably acting like a ***** to you, but generally, moms are trying to do what is best for you..seriously. I have 2 kids, 14 & 15, and sometimes they drive me crazy. I'm sure they think I'm a witch sometimes, maybe most of the time, but I love them and I want what is best for them. And even though kids "think" they know everything, they don't. Try to remember we've been there, done that already, and times haven't changed that much. I dont' know your situation, maybe your mom really is a *****, or maybe she's doing her best to do what she feels is right for you. If thats the case, someday you will grow up and understand. Maybe it will take you growing up and becoming a mom yourself to a teen, then you will understand how frustrating THEY really are.
2006-07-19 11:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Honor thy Mother and Father"
You may not think this way if you did not have a mother at all. Instead you would be wishing for a mother. My parents told me something long ago before both of them passed one year apart and that was "One day I would be glad to hear their voice" and you know what? I wish I could hear them and see them just to let them know how thankful I was for the years I had them in my life to get on my back and teach me the things I needed to know and to have their everlasting love.
Don't be a brat because in the long run you will regret it.
2006-07-19 11:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until youre a mother and your daughter drives you crazy!!! Im sure she is doing what she thinks is best for you. Hang in there!! You can move out when your 17!
2006-07-19 11:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is her job - to make sure you grow up to be a great person. The fact that you called her a lady says something.
2006-07-19 11:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey ,unfortunately we don't get to pick who gets to be our mother,Bit of advice ,Mothers always know whats best. we can either take their advice or leave it,Be careful of what you say because it comes back in ways we are not able to handle just learn to love and appreciate her while you can ,life is but a dream and you will miss her when shes gone trust me!
2006-07-19 11:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a B*^#*&^ because she loves you.
I used to think that way sometimes when I was younger and these days I would give anything to have her back (she passed away 2 years ago)
2006-07-19 11:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Doreen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Every mother cares her son/daughter.Most of things changed in my mind that i thought my mom was 100% wrong i was right.
2006-07-19 11:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by ekorkmaz90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would make you say that about the woman who gave you life? why don't you put your energy into having a better relationship with your mom God only blessed us with one
2006-07-19 11:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand mine either. Mine dis-owned me this past May so I am motherless aren't I lucky
2006-07-19 11:42:59 · answer #11 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋