I am only 13 and I want to ask out this guy that I like but no one approves because he is the class clown. I mean, everyone in choir hates him. But I think he has a crush on me but I am not positive. How to I ask him out but first make sure that he actually likes me? HELP!!!
2006-07-19 04:33:37 · 17 answers · asked by hottnsexy586 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) If you think he likes you by the signs,
staring at you
smiling at you
greeting you
flirting with you etc...
then pull him aside and ask him. Be like 'What do you think about me? Do you like me?' Or ask him online? Or give him a note?
If he likes you, then ask him if he wanted to get together for a movie or whatever. Just play casual.
2) If you like him and he likes you, it doesn't matter what anyone thinks. In time, people's opinion will change. Maybe he has something precious inside and only you could know? So, don't care what people, expect your parents, think. For some reasons, parents turn out right...hmm...
And no matter what, Trust your instincts! If your instincts aren't sending off the right signals, don't go for it.
2006-07-19 04:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to him and say u like him. Then if he says yeah what ever or thats great he likes u. If he says go away that means he doest like u. get his phone # call talk for a little bit then ask him.
hey im 13 do u want to go out
2006-07-19 11:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, don't worry about asking him out and worry less about what others think. Ask him to go get an ice cream cone and talk and be friends.
2006-07-19 11:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by JoeP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if its ok with him to keep u company wherever u like to go... that way it wont look like u are asking for a date... like u just need a friend or a companion. Tell him u think he can make u laugh and be happy for a while...
2006-07-19 12:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure he likes you and wants to be your friend. Then ask him out. If you're shy, and it's understandable if you are, at that age (I sure was) write him a note or secret admirer card and slip to him.
2006-07-19 11:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out if he likes you by having your friend ask his friend to ask him if he likes you. Then neither of you have to be embarrassed. If he does, you can organize a group outing with a bunch of friends and see how it goes. B
2006-07-19 11:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to be not like another girls that she go to the boys and tell her that she want to go with him because it a silly way. im a boy AND I THINK LIKE THAT.
so u must make him to take care of u but i clever way(try to make him that u want him but normaly as any other girls.)
the other step u can use ur brain to know it.
2006-07-19 11:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to go to the movies and make out with him when you guys are there.
2006-07-19 11:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by tabatha1333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just ask him, if he doesnt like you, so what, you can't get thru life w/o being rejected at least once. and if he says yes thats great for you. you're benefiting either way
2006-07-19 11:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by lemonada dada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to ask a guy out you got the right person first if they have a bag or something come waking and drop it and say sorry and you help picking it up.if he said thanks it is your perfect time to ask him.
2006-07-19 11:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Christine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋