what reasons you should u not have a abortion tell me the things that would put anyone off it?

Answer 1

i think you should only have one if there is something wrong with the baby and you have know other choice. it makes me sick when people have them willy nilly there are people out there that can't have kids and other that chop them out just because you don't want a baby don't have sex unprotected if you not preperred for what can happen. i just lost my niece she was 20 mins old when she died and it was heart breaking.

Answer 2

Well i think that there are pros and cons to having an abortion,,but the reasons not to since you asked are various ones,: for one it is dangerous,you take a chance of being injured or even death depending on how well the person performing the abortion does,,you could have internal bleeding,,physically anything could happen ,,,now mentally and emotionally is also an issue,,you may regret it later ,,and that is one regret that is hard to live with,,also if you choose to later have children having had an abortion may damage the plumbing so to speak,,it is a difficult decision and if this is the situation youre in a wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

I am not a bible thumper, but here is my reasoning not to do it ....

They brace the legs open.. then dilate the cervix.. then they go in with a sharp instrument to break the water sac ( which in some cases , they accidentally poke through the uterus ). After that they use a curved instrument to scrape at the lining of the uterus ( which often they scrape too hard, causing scarring ).. There is also a high chance of infection and hemorrhage.

I would really sit back and think about this.. it is a life.. 21 days after conception, the little heart starts beating. If you can find it.. I recommend the movie 'Silent Scream"... it shows the stages of abortion.

Is there a possibility of adoption? Many ppl are out there wanting families but cant complete them...

Answer 4

because its a disgusting and vile thing to do. in having an abortion you are murdering a child. The baby is living, how could it be ok to kill it?
i appreciate that there are circumstances in which people have abortions, but it is definately not something to be taken lightly.
what digusts me more is that you can get an abortion really late on during the pregnancy. At the stage you can get it to, the baby is tiny, but is actually fully formed, from its head to its toe. Thats wrong, and abortion should not be an option at the late stage.

Answer 5

To me abortion is just a fancy word used for the murder of a defenseless baby. I could never have an abortion and live my life knowing I killed a baby that depended on me for everything. I have 4 kids and not a day goes by that I dont thank God for giving me those children. I am young so I know how hard it is to be pregnant, but I never regretted it at all. If you arent mature enough to take care of a baby then my advice is KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED! If you arent ready for a baby or anything else then you sure arent ready for sex.

Answer 6

This is a hard question as you will get different answers on this one. I would never have one myself unless it was rape. One thing is that you gotta be 100% sure you want the abortion or 100% you want the baby. Children give you lots of joy and hurt at teh same time. They are hard work. Its up to you in the end but you need to think long and hard about this one as its life changing on both parts. You dont want regrets in your life. Good luck. Hope I helped a little

Answer 7

You want to take someone Else's life????
there is no need for abortion aside from rape, incest, and early on the health of the mother....
If two people think they're old enough to have a sexual relationship, whether they are experimenting or otherwise...they have no excuse for not using birth control....
Abortion as a convenient method of continuing a less than responsible life is pathetic at best...
been involved with two. Thought we wanted the children, they didn't!!!! It is a sad thing.......

Answer 8

you shouldn't have an abortion because it's against the bible. plus there's always another way out. have the kid since you took the risk/responsibilities and thought you were ready for them when you decided to open your legs. if you don't want the kid there's always adoption and some other loving responsible people will adopt it. whatever you do don't have an abortion!!! even if the baby is so called "unborn" could you live with the FACT that YOU KILLED IT because you can't accept the responsibilities? think about it.

Answer 9

Not only is it psychologically damaging but also physically damaging. Sometimes it can cause you not to be able to have children later when you would like to. Also it is an innocent human and if you are not responsible enough to take care of a child you shouldn't put yourself in a situation where you could get pregnant. Here is a site you can look at that tells you effects of an abortion
www.abortionfacts.com/effects/effects.asp

Answer 10

Most of the time, by the stage you realised you are pregnant the baby's heart is already beating. Who are we to have someone stop that precious heart beating. Its not easy raising an unplanned child. But if you aren't strong enough to give your baby up for adoption as a gift to a unfortunate couple who cants have kids. Then you shouldn't have an abortion. Thats my view.

Answer 11

think abput the life you would be bringing into the world! someone who you will love forever and someone that would love you foreve. someone that would never ever break your heart and someone that would never make you feel lonely again! children are wonderfull things and need so much love and care and if you think you can provide for a child then keep it. But i really think that if you are asking this question then you really dont want to have an abortion. i dont object them as some people really do need to have them. good luck