My girl is 5 days late. I check the condoms every time?

Question

Not really sure what my question is here. but just give me some answers. I'm slightly worried. she is 19.

Answer 1

first of all, at 19 her period can still be very irregular, adn women's periods, if NOT using the pill, change over time and never stay consistent forever.

Stress, poor eating habits and changes in exercise routines can also change a woman's period. I have skipped entire months due to stress alone.

If you are nervous, go to the store with her and purchase a test, and hold her hand while you wait for the results.

Answer 2

I was trying to figure out how old you would be so I could answer this question better. I went to see other questions you've asked and it seems you're 26 years old and she's 19. Big difference!

You are old enough to know better! You should know that condoms and even birth control pills are not 100% safe. The only thing 100% safe is not to do it...period.

If you play, you may get caught, and you might now be caught....in more ways than one. I see you posted a question asking if a 40 year old woman is too old for a 26 year old man, so it looks like you are playing both ends...the young and older! Shame on you!!!

Do you want to be the father of 2 babies from different mothers? A very real possibility here. I'm sure neither of the girls/women know of the other.

In answer to your question, YES she may be pregnant even though you check the condoms every time. I pray she isn't, but not for you, for her sake.

Before you go and have sex again, think it all the way through. Not just thinking about making yourself feel good. Do you want to take the chance of becoming a father right now? Will you take care of the baby, both physically, emotionally, and financially? How will you tell her parents about it? Are your prepared to be there for the baby and your g/f? How about your parents? Will they be happy to hear they are going to be grandparents? How will you tell them?

Are you prepared for your life to change forever. A child is a big responsibility.

Are you aware that sleeping with 2 woman, especially at the same time, you can be spreading STD's between them both? Especially with this 40 year old. I have no doubts that she's had other sexual partners, so you're not only sleeping with her, you're sleeping with all of them too and then turning around and sleeping with this 19 year old and quite possibly giving her the STD's too!

You're 26, old enough to know better and time for you to grow up! I think you need to stop having sex for awhile and either think things through before beginning again, or start looking up some information or talking to someone about sex education!

My prayers are with the 19 year old g/f (and quite possibly the baby).

Answer 3

If you g/f is always on time then maybe you two should go and get a pregnancy test and see what happens. The condoms could be fine before sex and then get a small hole that you can not see and this is how some people/women get pregnant. Just go get a pregnancy test and if it is possitive then go and see the doctor to talk about what you two now have to do. Dont worry to much untill you have dont the pregnancy test. Get one today and do the test today so both your minds are a rest then and you will know where you two stand cause all this thinking will drive you two mad. GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

there are lots of reasons why a girl can be late, like stress, been unwell, etc etc. I think if you are really that worried then you should wait a couple of weeks and then get a pregnancy test for her to do. It would be a waste of time and money to do one b4 then as the hormone levels don't always register. If you check the condoms every time then you would have seen if one had split, since you haven't put that one did split I would try not to worry. It's probably just one of those things

Answer 5

Well, first off..stay calm...
Second, at age 19 it is very common to run late on a period..especially if she has changed her diet, is working out hard, or has taken a new medication or vitamen of some kind.
Lastly, have her take a pregnancy test if within a few more days she hasn't started..they are cheap,and could put your mind at ease...if she shows not pregnant, and still hasn't started she may want to see a doctor, as a more serious problem may exist.
Hope this helps.
-V

Answer 6

Try not to worry at moment, if she has still not come on period by next week then get a pregnancy test and take her to see doctor. But you need to give it a little time just in case the stress of it is preventing her from having period, and it might be a period might be little late. Good Luck...

Answer 7

Get her to take a pregnancy test and to try and relax, stress and other variables can make periods late. I was late by nearly 2 weeks last month but there was nothing wrong or untoward it was just one of those things. The earlier you find out the better for both of you.

Answer 8

Periods vary. Stress can cause delays in a cycle along with other things. Just be supportive and suggest that she get a pregnancy test. I suggest testing a second time on a different day because they are not always accurate.

Answer 9

But do you check her other b/f's condoms as well?

Seriously... a pregnancy test kit is the answer.

But remember that late periods are just nature's little way of scaring the sh1t out of guys even when we try to act responsibly and that it's probably just a false alarm.

Answer 10

I don't think you should be worried, b'coz periods always won't come exactly at the same day. Sometimes it may get delayed upto 7-10 days.

But if you still have doubt, ask her to take a pregnancy test.