Where is the right place to meet someone? I mean someone you could spent the rest of your life with.
2006-07-19 04:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by thdrums 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met mine in a bar. Thing is, neither of us drink and we have never been to another bar since we have been married. Just one of those chance meetings. He was there because he was on vacation with his family and I was there because I was trying to avoid having to go out with a guy who had told me earlier in the day he was coming by my house.
My husband and I were engaged after two weeks, married after three months and have been married 18 years now. I guess my point is that you can meet nice guys in bars. They are probably few and far between, but it worked for me!
If I had gone out looking for a guy, though, I would have gone somewhere that guys like to hang out. I like to fish and hunt, so I would have gone on a fishing charter boat or one of those hunting trade shows or somewhere like that. Tons of guys just hanging around and easy to approach. How about the gym? I think the easiest place to meet someone is at work. Sort of a tricky situation these days with people claiming sexual harrassment and stuff, though. How about taking a college course in the evening?
Just go do something that you enjoy doing and if you meet a guy there, you can be pretty sure that you two have something in common. Good luck!
2006-07-19 04:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by JustLookinAround 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can meet anyone anywhere. Please, erase every mind-set or pre-conceived negative ideas about some places from your mind. Let me tell you that you may meet the right person you're looking for even here on this site. There's an adage among the Yoruba people of Nigeria that says: "the white pap is processed from the black pot". The sounds very simple, but you'll believe with me that it's very loaded in terms of meaning.
2006-07-19 04:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea. Sometimes peeps intro you to other peeps & that could be @ the mall or even @ peeps' houses. Not the bar lol.
Maybe try joining a club or something that you're interested in. You're bound to make friends since you all have the same interest. Good luck !
2006-07-19 04:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ppl usually find the person they spend the rest of their lives with at the most unexpected of places at the most unexpected of times.
2006-07-19 04:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dating show.........or go to a place where theres alot of people but don't go by yourself go w/ like a groupd of friends and maybe by the end of the night someone new will ahve joined your group to be w/ you!
2006-07-19 04:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tango<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no right place, it just happens that that you could be anywhere and the right person may come along....
2006-07-19 04:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried the mens bathroom at WAL-Mart? that way you can see what you will be getting
2006-07-19 04:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not here
2006-07-19 04:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by cutie_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendfinders
2006-07-19 04:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by Vincent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anywhere
2006-07-19 04:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋