ladies why do u like aggressive men i thought women like men they could control?

Question

especially since all women by nature are control freaks 10pts for the most honest answer

Answer 1

I think we know that we can be manipulative, as girls we do know how to control our guy, and to be with someone tough, it spices things up, and it's a bigger challenge for us.
Being in control all the time it can be boring, also talking about sex, we like someone who can just say 'i want you know' and throws you into bed.
The truth is we're hard to understand, but in the inside we just want to feel protected and secure with someone, we like to know he is stronger than us.

Answer 2

Not all women are control freaks.
I personally want a man who is neither controlling or able to be controlled. That's not how a good relationship works. Each person still needs to be their own individual. Having someone do everything I ask would drive me crazy, and I would get out as soon as possible. Also, I don't like being told what to do, so the aggressor would be out the door as well. I think most girls want that balance, unless they have low self esteem and are willing to be a doormat to any jerk that walks into their lives.

Answer 3

I dont think all women are control freaks. Myself I am laid back and have learned to accept people how they are and go with it. Now aggressive men to a point are sexy. They have a natural way of taking control and making you feel secure with them. They seem to know what they want, when they want it. I dont want to be more aggressive than the man I am with. I have and I dont like feeling dominate over him in a masculine way.

Answer 4

I like relationships with equal control. As for the aggressive men, only during sex. I like men that will just strip my clothes off and take control. I don't mean all the time but every once in a while is pleasuring.

Answer 5

I like men who can take control of many aspects of the relationship. I like those types of men because they are protective of their women and their relationships. I like the men who know what they want out of the relationship from the get go. I myself like to be told what to do "sometimes" in the relationship because I boss men around at work all day long. So it kind of helps balance my life out.

Answer 6

i am a very aggressive woman, not afraid to speak my mind, always in control. i like an aggressive guy because they don't mind telling me when I'm being a bicth, they stand up to me, and wont let me walk all over them. I like to fight, and i like to argue it's just my personality. i think I'm a really passionate person, and if I'm with some who is submissive i dint feel challenged. i like being challenged almost as much as i like being right. it helps me learn and grow. And a the end of the day the sex is alto more intense. i hope that helps.

Answer 7

I usually like to have control of the "household" (finances mostly, but there are other examples)....but I love for my husband to be "agressive" in bed (pulling my hair, getting rough...but not to the point of physical harm....not really S&M kind of stuff)...maybe tying me up, stuff like that. It's really the only place I want to be submissive.

Answer 8

I love it when the man takes control it is very exciting to me ,But some are the opposite ,so each to there own.

Answer 9

i love it when my man is in control.
it gives me a sence of belonging and makes me feel secured
i feel : yes he has me in mind, especially when he is the jealous type

Answer 10

for me, its a combination of two.
its depends sometimes on our mood. there are times we want to control them and sometimes not.