Ladies if a guy at target starts talking with you calmly, it turns out he's pretty funny and chill is it RUDE for him to take a RISK and ask you out? I've met some very cute women at target and they are always very nice and I'll usually have a question about what to buy and usually they are more than happy to share thier knowledge of products and then one convo leads to a different convo and I just feel like it would be rude to say "Hey some friends and I are going to be here you are more than welcome to bring some of your people and kick it" But I want to because it's not bar and ususally women are so nice there. Ladies Help me out am I being to shy?
2006-07-19 04:13:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-19 04:41:13 · update #1
Yes you are! First of all, it's not just you she would be spending time with - your friends are there, second of all, you told her that she could bring friends. So you're trying to create a comfortable and somewhat public environment for you to get to know each other. The next time that happens, just ask her. What's the worst that could happen? Get rejected? Hey, that's her loss. So don't worry about it and just go for it! Be polite and accept rejection gracefully if you get it. The ladies you haven't asked are probably wondering why you didn't! Good luck!
2006-07-19 04:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES you are being too shy! This is the perfect opportunity to ask a girl out. A bar would just be too obvious, but this way she gets to know your personality a little with the small talk about shopping. If they are talking to you they already think you're nice. Go for it!!
2006-07-19 11:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a women but i would say yes you are. Nothing wrong with your scenario in asking her. What would be rude would be after all of the conversation is to ask her to go have sex with you. While not being shy that would be rude.
May want to be sure she isn't married first.
2006-07-19 11:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you got to lose by asking? You just met the girl, so chances are you probably won't see her again unless you ask and she decides to show up. Take a risk. It could pay off!
2006-07-19 11:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just walk up to her w/o a convo, it's creepy, but asking her to kick it after a few convos is completely different. maybe youre more embarassed and nervous instead of shy. you seem sweet--if you're like this whenever you talk with girls, you should be fine.
2006-07-19 11:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by iheartme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how pushy you are. But that lines not so bad.
Don't know if I'd give into it, but it's still not so bad.
--oh and don't listen to other guys when they say a girl wants a guy who's majorly assertive. You have to be sensitive, but at the same time strong enough to protect her, but treat her equally to yourself........!
2006-07-19 12:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Molly P.! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it man. . . it doesn't hurt to ask. Also. . just think of anytime someone has asked you out. Even if not interested I'm sure that at least you felt flattered . . right? Same goes for woman. . . be a gentleman but just go for it. Good Luck.
2006-07-19 11:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the risk and ask. You could end up with a really great woman.
2006-07-19 11:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Wants2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try it. if they say no it could be cause they are married so don't feel bad if they do. u never know u couold meet ur dream women at a target.
2006-07-19 11:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea a little however some women would be like they juat met you just start by asking for her number and go fromt here
2006-07-19 11:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋