have previously done a threesome and had sex with girl in the same room as my buddy...is it similar?
2006-07-19 04:05:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be nervous about going at all. Think of it as just a regular party, only some of the people at the party will be wearing a lot fewer clothes.
The biggest rule of swinging is "NO MEANS NO". If you're worried about anything happening to you, then you should say "No" and step away. If that person/couple persists then you contact the host couple and they should put a stop to it.
As for what it will be like, it will depend on the situation you get invited into. You may be invited to join another couple, a large group, or a one-on-one encounter. But, don't go presuming that you will have sex. Go with the hope, not expectation and you will be just fine.
2006-07-20 04:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having never done it I may be out of date with what a "swinger" means. It used to mean that a husband and wife would go to a party in which, during the course of the night each would find a partner they are not married to and go have sex.
That guaranteed there would always be a female for every male.
I have no idea what your "swinger" party is but now days I guess it could mean anything. All the way from one on one to three on one.
Only thing you should do is take a large box of condoms and do not forget why you brought them.
2006-07-19 04:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good way to pick up some serious diseases.
Think. What are the other's getting out of it?
Sex? Drugs? Sure, but they could do that individually.
So they are using you because they have trouble getting sex because they carry diseases that you don't want to get. Or they might introduce you to a very addictive drug and get you hooked. Then they own you. You are just a slave.
If you want to live a long healthy life you must not let your sexual desires determine what you do in this world.
2006-07-19 04:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Alan Turing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you are a swinger or interested in being one.
2016-03-26 23:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all swinger parties are sexual. But being nervous about anything new is normal, try it once try it twice dont be scured just do it
2006-07-19 04:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Eric R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not nervous , maybe excited! Kinda similiar just be prepared to see some off the wall things.
2006-07-19 04:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear tell they aren't much different. Some do it in the open, but most take it somewhere more private...its just a way of getting people together...now an orgy on the other hand..lol
2006-07-19 04:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by RenagadePriest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, invite me i'll go with you and let you watch everything i do as i am experinced swinger then next time you will be excited about going and not on the computer asking DUMB questions
2006-07-19 04:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked the other 2 experiences, you'll LOVE the party !!!! If you have/had any hesitation/reservation(s) about it, then I would think about whether or not to go.
Sounds like a lot of fun to me !
Have fun! Enjoy!
2006-07-19 04:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have done a threesome you should fit right in then so enjoy yourself!!!
2006-07-19 04:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by sexy lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋