i'm going out with this guy but i always feel like i'm going to puke when i get really close to him. I really like him but hate the pit feeling i get in my stomach! what do i do?
2006-07-19 03:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by don't cha wish? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are worrying too much about what he thinks of everything you do around him.You'll have to get over this feeling that you are being judged for your every move in order to feel more comfortable around him.The way I would try to get over this is by telling myself he already likes me so i am just going to be myself which is all I can be anyway and if he likes it good and if not it"s not the end of the world.
2006-07-19 04:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Silva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this means that you really like him, if he is understanding then tell him, he totally likes you, thats why he is going out with you! This dude sounds nice but if he doesnt care about your feelings and wants and needs than he isnt worth it! You really should try to get to know him better. And most of your nerves come from thinking ( probably) that you arent good enought for him. Either you asked him out and he said YES! OR HE asked YOU out! So either way he has got to like you.
2006-07-19 03:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, tip 1 : Eat a piece of ginger and then gargle with mouthwash. Ginger really relaxes the nerves. Mouthwash for the post-ginger breath.
Tip 2 : Plan what you're going to say to him. Go through all the scenarios, anticipate what he might say, his replies, your replies, so that when you finally do talk to him, you don't freeze and stutter. It works....at least for me!
2006-07-19 03:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by sleepykoala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's cool to have butterflies for someone but if you want to puke i think you need to gain confidence in yourself. Why don't you try showing him your world. do you have a hobby? Something you know alot about? Go on a date were you show him something,this way he gets to know more about you and you can be confident about it.
2006-07-19 04:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Feel the same way around guys eventually you will loosen up around him.if you really like him it's normal.
2006-07-19 03:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by tropicalsunset245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgsh awe im so sorry .. my lil sis had the same prblem.. cause she was as u say prude.. but now shes all over guys.. just act normal like u would around n e friend
2006-07-19 03:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by ily_______&?; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with him more then sooner than later you ll feel just right i think it happens 2 every1
2006-07-19 03:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkt41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breath, be confident, remove self doubt. Talk to him about how you feel, you may be relieved.
Date more-
build your confidence
2006-07-19 03:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by China 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that he is human just like you. He has his own set of insecurities just like you. He is not a god, just a guy.
2006-07-19 03:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man there is something wrong definately
is it because he dont take a bath
or his Smartness (-ive) is bothering u
2006-07-19 03:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋