am 22 and just finshed my pharmacy degree .......am a good looking guy ....and have a athletiic fisuque ..and am 6ft .1 and by the way am not boosting ....ok now heres the problem ....am virgin and mum wants me to get married to some girl ...am not sure if i wanna marry her...she seems ok ...but havent actually got to know her properly.......i would find my own girl but i have a 1 flaw in my whole character.......and that is am shy around girls ..just am....am bold at everthing else ..but with girl its a diffrent story ....i think its becuase im virgin ....should i lose my virginity and that way be a more confident guy ....but then again i dont wana hurt anyone ....and oh yeh theres that girl issue to.....or do i just get married ..am proper confused ...sujestions please
2006-07-19 03:32:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They will come, give it time. When you're not looking for it, it will come to you. Girls have a sixth sense when it comes to guys who are not confident. They need confident men because they need a protector (before anything else) type of guy. That's why girls are into the bad-boy type. Focus on your career, make $$$ (or pounds) and they will be lining up.
2006-07-19 03:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Army 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Mr. 22 year old virgin. Your shy around girls. At least that's not a big problem. You should talk to more girls until you break your damn shyness. Start walking up to girls and just say hi or something nice as i like your shoes? where can i get some for my girlfriend or something. That way they can tell you where to find them and it be more then a few words. Or ask them a question that needs a women perspective. Do this to every chick you see in the mall and I promise you'll feel better and know its so easy to talk to girls. Just have to be in the right frame of mind. And don't lose ur virginity until your ready. You can use it to your advantage and show women u are not looking out for sex like other guys. Use it the right way and women may try to rape you...
2006-07-19 03:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy is not out of the normal...learning to communicate with the opposite sex is extremely important if your considering any relationship and definitely marriage...sex doesn't have to be a priority in this particular social situation...that will come naturally when the time is right for both of you...but you need to socialize more around women...that way you can become a kind and considerate significant other...good luck.
2006-07-19 03:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - Do not get married. 2- You will not be more outgoing in front of women because you are no longer a virgin. 3 - Enjoy life the right girl will come around and you will not be shy in front of her. 4 - When you find that girl that you are completely comfortable in front of.... marry her....
2006-07-19 03:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by SunshineSparkles1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to lose ur virginity then i think u will open up more but til then u have to try to talk to girls at least maybe try to go out on a couple of dates then get to the intimacy! I'll help u lose ur virginity!!!
2006-07-19 03:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by xxcaramelqt19xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of everyone's going to reaction in some "mainstream" way -- somewhat whilst they have not seen plenty opp-intercourse nudity in any respect of their lives, ya understand? it is in comparison to your bro-sis the place your preliminary reaction could be to freak out. enable's say you had a sturdy finding aunt. could you particularly see her bare, or your mom? ok, now say you're 14 -- you are going to react extra dumbfounded/curious on your aunt than now. only sayin'. do no longer sweat it. It does not recommend plenty. She's curious -- and despite while you're a cousin, it is no longer an "ick" element like a sibling till you grew up interior the comparable spouse and young ones like a sibling.... so which you would be sure some interest approximately it in perspectives from a youthful viewer. do no longer sweat it!
2016-11-02 08:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait to get married until you're ready. Don't sleep with a girl just to have sex. Keep looking. You will find the right one. You're still young!
2006-07-19 03:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st does ur mum know ur a virgin if she doesnt tel her
2nd if ur not ready to lose ur virginty dont have sex
3rd if u do consider to have sex choose the girl u want to lose it to not some hooker
4th dont get married to the girl if u dont know her
5th try to get around girls try to talk to them they wont bite (only if they have problems and do bite u after u say hi) try to get over ur shyness
2006-07-19 03:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do keep your virginity for marriage. When you see the right girl, you won't be shy anymore.
2006-07-19 03:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come you are so good looking but virgin lol
2006-07-19 04:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by qnzlilmami018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋