I run into this incredible girl every morning at my bus stop and chat with her frequently. I checked her hands and noticed she's not wearing any rings, so I figure she's single.
I could ask her out directly, but I'm a bit of a chicken ****. And it really sucks when I get most replys like "I'm seeing someone," "I'm too busy," or "Sorry, I'm not interested."
Through chatting with her, I know where she works and looked up her email address. Is it a good option, or a lousey one, to ask her out that way?
I don't want to look too childish, or like a stalker or anything.
Any other suggestions would be appreciated as well.
2006-07-19 03:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by onlyget1shot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how bout you just ask her out to some coffee or something and maybe after coffee you could ask her if she wants to see a movie or have dinner sometime.
2006-07-19 03:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by jamiefear_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't email her, that's tacky. You have a good rapport going with her, so you're half way there.
One way to find out if she's seeing someone or is otherwise attached is to find out what's she's doing on certain holidays. If she has a significant enough other, she'll most likely have plans with him. You could also ask what great plans she has for the weekend. Same thing applies.
Find out her favorite morning drink (coffee, hot tea, etc.). Then get it from a cafe' or other place close by the bus stop. Talk to her about where you got it, tell her where it is and ask her if she'd like to meet for [morning drink] there sometime before work. Meet there several times, then ask her if she would like to try another place you know of for dinner.
I think taking your time is best in this situation. Progress slowly and you minimize your chances of a big let down. Starting off casually is always good.
Good luck!!
2006-07-19 10:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should chat with her first send her funnie faces and make her feel comfortable over the computer than when u have done that try talking to her in the bus stop about anything you guys talked about in the computer for like at least 2 or 3 day's you don't wanna look desperate lol and than try askin her out easy and simple as that good luck my love
2006-07-19 10:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by qnzlilmami018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here ask her out in a confident voice. First find that voice. Then while talking to ger at the bus stop just before you leave (like walk away then turn around) and say he Would u like to continue talking over _____ (food, ice cream or something u think mite me fun).
She should say yes. Just aslong as u pretend ur confident. ;-)
2006-07-19 10:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋