he is moving in 2 days he doesnt want to move but he has to.we dont want to break up should we stay together or break up.
2006-07-19 03:05:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look i personaly think that if you'll love eachother like so much stay 2getha i mean if its true love no one will separate youll not even the far distance you know i mean i am going through this now you know! look here e-mail me and w can talk i can help you out more
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2006-07-19 03:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by PrIsSy LoVeS yOu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how far away is he moving? how long have you been together? how old are you two? all of these things will be deciding factors in whether or not you stay together. i would say plan to break up and have a "grace" period before dating anybody else seriously, that way you can have a trial long distance relationship....are you able to get together still regularly? do you find yourself satisfied and not lonely? if it works out you can get back together, if you each meet other people in the meantime, it probably wasn't meant to be and you aren't cheating because you are broken up. it also gives you the chance to go to dinner or a movie or whatever with other people who may be interested in you or that you have been interested in but had a boyfriend and weren't available. this way you can end your relationship on good terms and maybe have a penpal for life.
2006-07-19 03:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by tella stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met the boyfriend I have now the summer before my senior year of high school. Midway through the summer we found out that he and his parents were moving to Indiana in August. He didn't want to leave and I didn't want to break up. He eventually moved back a few months later. Last June was our 6 year anniversary and we never broke up. If it's meant to last then it will last. Try the long distance thing for awhile; see how it works.
2006-07-19 03:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nice thing about having a long distance relationship this day in age is the large amount of ways to communicate easily and effectively over a great distance.
I live in Michigan while my boyfriend lives in San Diego and is currently enrolling in the US Air Force, meaning he will be traveling constantly from place to place.
However, we both have cell phones, web cams, and online instant messaging services that allow us to keep in almost constant contact.
It isn't the same as your boyfriend being physically there but it's almost as close as you can get!
Good luck with your relationship, if you truly want to make it work, it will =)
2006-07-19 03:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The staying together or break question is yours alone to answer. Age has a lot to do with it. If you are under 18, think about it strongly. It takes a heap of maturity to withstand miles in a relationship. And there are lots of things like Proms, Dances, Dating, etc. that you would like to have someone there for. Him too for that matter. However, if you do stay together it is time to re-evaluate your cell phone plan.
2006-07-19 03:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Debi L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is often hard to give advice one. I am not sure your ages so I'd say you may want to ride this one out. Having a long distance relationship is very hard. If you aren't planning to go with him and he isn't planning to return it may be best to end the relationship and remain friends. I would say you don't have to make this decision in two days. Enjoy the remaining time you have together doing something fun!! Make sure you reflect on all the wonderful times you have experienced together. Good Luck!
2006-07-19 03:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by squashpatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will be faithful until the end. Wave good bye to him as he is leaving... Oh and make sure you have a lot of tears as you tell him how much you will miss him. Uncontrobable sobbing really works good. Lots of sniffing and blowing your nose with his handkerchief. At least he will take something of yours with him.
As soon as he is out of sight, get on the phone and find and new boyfriend.
2006-07-19 03:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how far away he is going, but most likely it will be over in the next few months. You will start to grow apart and before you know it, it will be over. Sorry to give bad news.
2006-07-19 03:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.I think that you if guys have a solid foundation you should think twice about leaving him. love isn't like something you have a choice over. its either you love him enough to stay with him or you don't love him enough to let him go. If it is true then once you let him go he will come back
2006-07-19 03:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your age if you are an adult then you have to decide if you want a life with him or without him and if you can handle a long distant relationship or not ,but most long distant relationships unless they are strong do not last, so my best advise is if you love him and are of age go with him
2006-07-19 03:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋