i been with this guy for 10 months and wlel the thing is that we have rules and i broke a huge promise to him and now i am afraid to loose him! and i mean what do i do he dont want no explanations but with the voicemail he left me last nigth he said that he was tired of me not keeping a promise! PLEASE HELP ME
2006-07-19 03:04:31 · 10 answers · asked by PrIsSy LoVeS yOu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, appears to me you brought that on yourself, sweetie. If the "rules" were clear to the both of you, then you conscientiously broke that particular rule...he has a right to be upset with you. If you really want to keep him; give him time. He may (or may not) come around. But, do NOT hassle him about it....it just gives him more reason to shun you.
2006-07-19 03:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tired of you not keeping your promise? Does that mean you've betrayed his trust several times? If you've betrayed someones trust several times, it's hard to get it back.
You could try having a platonic thing with him for a while and build the trust back up. See each other occasionally for a movie or something. Have some simpler rules that aren't devastating to him if they're not followed. Show him you can be trusted. Build back up to what you had and QUIT BREAKING THE RULES!!
Good luck!
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2016-12-01 22:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by radabaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody says they are 'tired' of you not keeping a promise.
Tired comes after 3 or 4 broken promises.
Are you slanting this story to your benefit?
There really is nothing you can do to guarantee success, however, you can send him a card acknowledging your mistake and asking for understanding.
If there is no reply, its over.
If there is any kind of contact by him, you have a second chance.
Don't blow it.
2006-07-19 03:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you guys have rules? A relationship is about trusting each other. I don't understand that fact.
But anyways, if you really don't wanna loose him, tell him you're sorry and try to do something to make up for it.
2006-07-19 03:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing all the details of your delimena, it's hard to make a choice as to who is over reacting here. However, going by one of your prior questions, maybe he shouldnt be your entire life at the moment. Give yourself some time to find out who you are, and what you want.
2006-07-19 03:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace the truth that you cannot make a person stay with you. Just like he couldn't make you keep your promise. You don't want to lose him but you might.
Apologize and tread softly, but in future, don't make promises you don't intend to/can't keep.
2006-07-19 03:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by That Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you might lose him, theres nothing harder than trying to regain a lost trust, maybe he feels like you cant keep your promises to him, you shouldnt have made them if you cant keep them. the only thing you can do is, apologize and show him that your willing to try and make it up to him, if he doenst want to hear it, and he lets you go, then now you know for next time, and learn from your mistakes
2006-07-19 03:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the promise that you broke. ive been dating a guy for 6 months now and i would know how you felt if you lost him. if theres a good reason you didnt keep your promise then talk to him about it. tell him how you feel about him. like you dont know wat youd do if you lost him. good luck
2006-07-19 03:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by soccer star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him nicely n let him know that u still care for him a lot face to face. Go to his house n find him.
2006-07-19 03:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by I dunno wad to do.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋