2006-07-19 03:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by yankee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you are a virgin and don't have a girlfriend does not make you a loser. The right girl will come along, just when you're not looking, then love, then marriage, then sex. Try going to church, library, laundry mat, mall or supermarket. Check the ring finger first. You'll know if she's interested in one glance.
2006-07-19 03:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to start by thinking positive. Stop calling yourself a loser. Would you want a girlfriend who thinks she's a loser?
Virginity is a totally different subject. Guys I've talked to who lost their virginity at an early age deeply regretted that it hadn't meant anything at the time. And don't think they were "sensitive guys". These were some of the most heartless, ice cold players ever. Sex is a serious thing so please don't make it a part of the issue of being single or not single.
If you want a girlfriend, try to be all those things you are looking for in a girl. You probably want someone who takes pride in her appearance, has something intelligent to say, cares about how others feel, and has an opinion on something. Develop the characteristics you're looking for in yourself first. Be friendly to girls you meet. And most of all, stay positive.
Good luck!
2006-07-19 10:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by That Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha...
I can't tell you how to get a girlfriend now.
BUT...
I can tell you how to get a gf and laid in a year or two.
Work out...HARD. I mean it...get on a program, sign up to a gym....run...diet...get an awesome body. Push yourself super hard to have a rockin body - it takes about 6 months to see a difference, but keep it up, and pretty soon, chicas will notice.
Get a nice haircut, get contacts if you have glasses, go see a dermatologist if you have acne...etc etc.
Then...focus on school, and your intelligence. Join some clubs and activities - girls like guys who are interesting, and have more things going for them instead of playstation.
Do these things for at least a year, and I PROMISE you will have all the girls you can handle.
2006-07-19 10:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on.....I'm sure you're not as bad as all that. Maybe you're just trying too hard to find a girlfriend. I think I would advise you to relax a little about it, and try not be so stressed. Find a girl you would like to get to know and develop a friendship first, then later after the friendship has developed a little, ask her to be your girlfriend.
2006-07-19 10:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first stop being a loser. girls like a winner. Or find a female loser, lots of them to choose from. Then you can be losers together and make little loser babies.
2006-07-19 10:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by onespryguy55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not being a sad pathetic loser.
You are probably so ~money~ and don't even know it.
Just work it & be cool.
Chicks dig a clean, friendly, confident guy. You'll see.
2006-07-19 10:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Saffron♥Daydream♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take $100 out of your bank account and go down to the part of town where the pavement princesses hang out, and bingo, one girlfriend coming right up or going down or whatever...
2006-07-19 10:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-->Belive on urself.Be confident
2-->Read this book .. Christian De Meco - The Dating Black Book.pdf -
3--->search and download that from here.. http://www.rapidshared.org
2006-07-19 10:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Shiv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by getting some self esteem.
2006-07-19 10:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by faversham 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More likely a cop or a Dateline NBC producer. Good try, sucker!
2006-07-19 10:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by thylawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋