Me and my boyfriend stay in the same city, i really get upset if he does not call me every day. Is it important for him to call me every day or what is good?
2006-07-19 03:00:34 · 18 answers · asked by md 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over yourself. You aren't the only thing in the world he has going on. If you can't trust him, then you shouldn't be with him. He's your boyfriend, not your conjoined twin.
2006-07-19 03:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Its not important he doesn't have to call you everyday. If you want to talk to him you should call him. He isn't a mind reader and can't anticipate every time you feel an urge to recieve a ring. Some people need more attention than others, I personally would be fine talking to the guy I'm seeing every other day on the phone. Or just a text at night will do. If he has nothing to say you can't expect him to call you and what... fill you in on what he had for lunch? Lame!
2006-07-19 03:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me no, but it depends on the relationship that you have with your current bf and the type of person that he is. Speaking each day is somewhat unnecessary for many people. However if that's what your expectations are for a bf, then you should be with someone who shares that same value or run the risk of being frustrated each day that you don't hear from your current bf. He obviously doesn't share the same expectation.
2006-07-19 03:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sleepless in NY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to learn to understand, love and accept each other so you need as much contact as possible. However, the line can't replace the real person, and sometimes very deceitive, so don't rely on it only.
Try to meet more often. And if he's too busy to call you everyday, he'll be too busy to meet you more often I guess?
Look for a new bf then!
Good luck!
2006-07-19 03:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by bla_bla_bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it you or he that needs the call?
Is it a need? Or is it just a desire to be close?
I don't think a solid, healthy relationship requires constant attention like that in my opinion. If it's what you both choose and it is truly mutual then I don't see anything wrong with it. Otherwise you two may need to talk.
2006-07-19 03:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like for my guy and me to talk somehow everyday whether it be on the phone or meeting somewhere. it also depends on his work life. if he has a job and he also does a lot that keeps him busy you might not get to talk to him every single day. i believe you guys should make an effort to call each other every day if you want things to work out for the best!!
2006-07-19 03:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by soccer star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is rare that you will find a guy that calls you everyday. as long as he calls every couple days to see how you are, theres no problem. read some other question on here, most girls wonder why their boyfriends never answer their calls, let alone call them! dont worry
2006-07-19 03:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important for either to call the other on a daily basis if they have access to the phone.
2006-07-19 03:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think same city or even same house... you should call each other at least one time a day.
2006-07-19 03:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by ??!?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you both require it. NEED is the key. Independence is wonderful........NEEDY is not.
If you feel the need to speak with him, and he hasnt called, simply call him. Dont make yourself unnecessarily miserable.
2006-07-19 03:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋