ok if u have read my other questions, u will see me and my fiance broke up... well we got back together last nite and then not even 2 hrs later, he told me that he needs to take some time off and see what he really wants. he has told me this once before and i asked him about it and he said its because ive changed.. well ok, he also tells me everything is moving to fast - we have been together for 3 damn yrs, how in the hell is that moving to fast? can someone plzz give me some answers on y he is acting like a little kid. i need the support....
2006-07-19 02:42:59 · 11 answers · asked by diamondprincezz456 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like he wants the best of both worlds. Anybody that "wishy washy" about his feelings is someone you need to take a good long look at. I'm quite sure you deserve better than that so really look into this relationship and see if this is what you really want.
2006-07-19 03:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow! been there done that. i was with someone for 4 yrs and he would come and go, want me one minute, wanted to be single the next, wanted me w/o a commitment. it was all over the place. he had issues. the one thing i knew is that he loved me and never meant to intentionally hurt me, he just had issues and a lot of fear. and mind you, this is the guy i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, the one i thought would be forever. i knew he loved me as i loved him but one yr i finally just couldn't do it any longer. i was just spent. my patience and understanding was exhausted. however, that was when i met the man i am now marrying. the best thing that has ever happened to me. my ex had many opportunities to do right by me. we parted in good terms and i never held any anger towards him. he will always be a part of me, he will always have a friend. i realized he and i would not work because there was just too much hurt and no trust; that love wasn't enough and that who i'm with now is where i belong. he is wonderful in every way.
2006-07-19 03:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using you because he's used to having you around and, face it , you let him..
you had a fight..over what.. and how did he treat you before the fight..need more information to give you a real opinion but, alas it sounds to me like maybe you hurt his feelings , somehow, he's probably a jerk anyway, and now he is trying to get back at you..or maybe he just never liked you but you are very good in bed..who knows..
i know one thing.. life goes on...
it may suck but it does..
oh yeah.. it also sounds to me like you are an emotional sponge..
which could be another reason he started a fight with you.
as an excuse to break up.. but the booty must be something fierce..
cheer up.. have a nice life..
2006-07-19 02:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by gorillablunts123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you got back together were you on your back? Come on girl, are you really that naive? Hes playin you girl! Wake- up!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish I could find one like you! Sound a little rocky to start, you might reconsider the marriage thing.
2006-07-19 02:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chris B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he was up only for sex! Bad guys! only date and have free sex! But when a girl askes something in return! they turn and go!! You have to becareful honey! dont let that happen again!!
Talk to him! wow 3 years is a long time!!
2006-07-19 02:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know G it's not you, it's him. He doesn't know what he wants, he's trying to create a problem, it's not you, don't put yourself down, if you still love him talk to him tell him to speak up G, and if he ain't talkin' you set him straight good luck sweet
2006-07-20 07:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by DJ Vendetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is juss scared dont kno why but it sounds to me dat he is bein a big baby!!!
2006-07-19 02:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to grow up a bit. that or he wanted to get into your pants again.
2006-07-19 02:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's seeing someone else, follow him you'll find out!
2006-07-19 02:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are scared of commitment!
2006-07-19 02:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋