how can i find out if d girl i love has d same feelings about me?

Answer 1

By asking her frankly...and nothing else..

Answer 2

Everyone is saying "ask her" or "tell her how you feel". These people watch too many sappy movies.

That will most likely scare her off, that's like going from zero to a million in relationship in 2 seconds.

Here is the big secret no one will tell you. She doesn't care how you feel about her she cares how she feels about you.

If you are dating or have dated this girl, then you need to up the ante. Girls aren't that shy about love, if she loved you, she might not say it but she would show it in other ways. If you are unclear you could ask her about where she sees herself in the future, if she talks a lot about marriage and kids then that's good because if she is dating you and talking about marriage chances are you are the person she is considering marrying (one at least one of the choices).

But I am guessing you are not dating this girl, in fact my guess is you are either just a good friend or she barely knows you, in both cases the you can't jump from where you are now to both of you madly in love over night. It takes time and work, you have to flirt with her, you have to date her, and you have to show her that you are a great guy (not a nice guy which turns into you being a love sick puppy doing anything she says). Also the key word is SHOW, telling her is meaningless.

In all of relationships words are just words, actions are what matter.

Answer 3

If you already "love" this girl, I am sure you would know. This means you have probably dated her for some time. If not, I doubt you "love" her so much if in fact, you can't even tell how she feels about you. Give it time, go on dates and spend lots of time with her.......you will be able to get an idea, or just ask. I don't know how old you are but don't let it get you down. If she does not "love" you....then go on and find another.......enjoy.

Answer 4

its just simple. one can predict it by noticing the body language of the gal. if she stares at u quite often-more than normal. if she shies away if u look directly at her eyes, if she likes it wen u call her up even at odd hours of the day. u can even enquire from any common friend of yours whether she shares the same feeling for u or not. if she frequently talks about u among her freinds then give it a shot man!

Answer 5

The easiest way is ask her. Be confident when you do it though, confidence is very attractive. There is nothing wrong with making a mistake, but who knows, maybe your courage will inspire her to feel more about you even if she doesn't already feel that way!

Answer 6

Tell her you love her and see what her reaction is , she may well feel the same about you but feel etiquette may say you should mention it first.

Answer 7

only by asking but u can have some clues by the way she talk and adress to u, if she often gives smile at u
if she care for u, always gives u signals that she is interested in u

Answer 8

Ask her friend to ask her, then tell her friends to tell her what you really think about her...just kidding dude step up and tell her...if she doesn't love you, at least you'll know.

Answer 9

you have to tell her how you feel, and ask her if she feels the same...man up dude..woman want to be pursued and we will lose interest if we think the guy is not interested...and if you don't tell her that is what she will think.

Answer 10

Only one way. make out with her best friend but seriously everyone else is right you have to ask her out.

Answer 11

Try to talk to her during classes,Take her books then see how she responds.If she responds nice then maybe she likes you too,if she responds a little mean then maybe not.