Im 24 and am sexually attracted to a 40 yr old man whos married at work..and he has been staring at me when Im not looking..but this has subsided....is it too late?
2006-07-19 02:21:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No strings attached of course! =)
2006-07-19 02:22:12 · update #1
Sex with a 40 year old is fine.
Sex with any man who is married is ALWAYS wrong, it ALWAYS leads to trouble. His age is irrelevant.
2006-07-19 02:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If He's Married Yes It's Completely Wrong,When You Are 40 Would You Want Young Girl Sleeping With Your Husband? What Goes Around Will Come Around,You May Pay Later For What You Do Now,Plus There Is A Lot Of Bodies In Graveyards Everywhere Due To Sleeping With Other PPL's Mates,I MEAN A Whole Lot,Be Careful You Will Pay'''
2016-03-16 01:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Aline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong? Why don't you try asking the wife that question? I'm sure she's here some where. Honey! Are you here?
But seriously though, you kind of already know the answer to that question. And the only reason why you're asking this question is because of guilt. And now, you're trying to weigh the options of your emotions. But just let me school you on something.
First off, he's never and I do mean, NEVER going to leave his wife. I don't care what he may say to you about her. If he's having so many problems with his wife, then she should be the first to know. But he's not leaving her. Let's understand that.
Secondly, don't get yourself shot over no man. Why bring drama into your life, when you know that you can do better for yourself? Is this man really worth getting shot over? Imagine what would happen if you was the actual wife and his wife was the other woman? I think that you can do better and you should. Karma is not a woman that you want to play with. News at 11.
2006-07-19 02:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by fourdollars15cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a fling with a married man.
I don't regret it.
I didn't break up his family.
It ranks amongst the best sex I've ever had.
I can't advise you though - depends on what you want. It will sound implausible to the moral majority on here but I knew that this man was in love with his wife, he didn't promise me anything but a good time in bed. We were discreet, used protection and knew what we were getting into. If I had wanted more it wouldn't have worked. Now whenever I remember it - I can smile. Mind you I never saw him afterwards - maybe if we'd had to continue seeing each other at work it wouldn't have worked.
2006-07-19 02:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be quite bored darling. Gal try get out more and meet someone a little closer to your age and more importantly not married.
Its not really the age thing but let say for argument sake you go ahead and give in to this 'attraction' and suddenly strings become attached. Don't complicate your life you are young and probably very intelligent don't throw it away on a whim.
2006-07-19 08:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap isn't the problem here...
He is MARRIED
maybe he has children too. Would you want to be the one to break up their home and ruin their life? Just for the sake of a quick "no strings" fling?
It's not worth it. Find a man who's free. It's a lot less hassle.
2006-07-19 02:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dusky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong 2 hav sex wit a 40 years old guy..but not the married 1..
2006-07-19 04:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by blur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have people like you got any morals whatsoever? Then answer is an obvious no! He's married. He might be unhappy in his marriage but you have no right to exploit that and ruin it. Stop leering and find someone atainable instead of leeching on someone elses partner.
2006-07-19 02:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by The_Landlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like you really get my back up. Why can't you find your own bloody man and leave him well alone!! He's married!! You probably don't have a conscious anyway so its up to you - you are nothing but a sl**
2006-07-19 02:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl think careful about your action you might please this bloke sexually but are you thinking that he's a married man, you might make him leave his family if he's into you because he's getting something from you which his wife can't give him...but there's nothing wrong to have sexual relationship with old folks as long they are not attach to someone but it is upto you to decide what you want.
2006-07-19 04:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋