im a 26yr old happily married lady.....heres my problem.....we have **x almost all the days and im very happy 4 that...but ive never reached *** by inserting my husbands ****s.....we do have a lot of foreplay too.....i can get into the desired tip only when my husband does it 4 me with his fingers...but he enjoys by inserting.....he has tried a lot to do the same 4 me too....but.......
i used to masturbate b4 my marriage.is this all bcoz of that...we have consulted a doctor too....please help ....i would love to *************************..........
2006-07-19 02:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by pretty g 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I can imagine what only a few of those stars are!
It could be for a variety of reasons, especially if you haven't been married that long. You could try changing position(s) and/or switching the order of activity (i.e. you might have more success with more foreplay before "***"). You might also be psychologically distracted from being fulfilled -- I had that problem when I was newly-married.
Patience is the best thing, though. Remember, you two will have a lifetime together. If you have a sexual goal, and you do, there is plenty of time to reach it.
2006-07-19 02:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by dave-215-212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone. Most women cannot reach orgasm through sexual intercourse -- they require clitoral stimulation to get there. And no, it's not because you used to masturbate a lot before you got married. Best thing for you to do is show your husband what you like, or let him "experiment" (as long as you have boundaries set) and tell him what you like and what's not so great. Be sure to coach him as you go -- faster, slower, move up, move down, keep doing that, etc. If he brings you to orgasm first, chances are you'll enjoy intercourse that much more, and you can sell it to him by saying he'll last longer if he spends the time bringing you to orgasm (that is the absolute truth, by the way). Good luck!
2006-07-19 09:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal. masturbation is also v normal.90percent of all women attain orgasm with massaging only,but never the less u can attain it during intercourse but that is with practice andexperience Dont be unduly worried,every thing will get better with time and experience
2006-07-19 09:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on top! That way you can stimulate yourself on him. worked for us! Also get some toys, we got one from a sex party and now we both *** at the same time. it goes around him and has a vibrating thumb for me. We love it!
2006-07-19 09:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a very simple solution to this.... have your husband bring you to orgasm with his fingers and then he can have his orgasm by sex. Then everyone is happy. Best wishes
2006-07-19 09:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋