I have been trying to concieve for 3 years, i had a miscarriage last year so know it can happen but was wondering what the view is from a spiritual point of view? Is my wanting it so much somehow stopping it happening?
2006-07-19 00:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You may indeed be trying too hard. There have been many women who've given up and adopted and then become pregnant soon after adopting. I even know someone personally whom this happened to. She had spinal bifida and they doctors didn't even think she could get pregnant, but after adopting a child from China she got pregnant and had another baby. It is believed that the couple relaxes when they adopt because the pressure to conceive is off and then they conceive their own child.
I believe that God's hand is in this. Because some people haven't been able to conceive, many children who need a good home now have one!
My cousin tried for years to conceive and even used fertility drugs. That was with her first husband. Then her husband got addicted to porn, and as a result, they divorced so it was probably better that there were no kids from that marriage. After several years, my cousin remarried and she and her new husband adopted a 3 yr. old girl. Now they are also raising their daughter's half siblings and are trying to adopt them too.
Good luck to you! I know it is hard to see right now, but there is a silver lining to those clouds. I am sorry about your miscarriage too - I had one myself and know how tough that is. The baby would have been four this month!
2006-07-19 18:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The mechanics of getting pregnant after a miscarriage are not much different than conceiving a baby at any other time, but there are some things you may want to know if you are trying to get pregnant after a miscarriage. Research show that women with low folic acid levels had a higher rate of miscarriage and were more likely to have fetuses with a chromosomal defect (one of the most common causes of miscarriage). Being in good health is one thing you can do to improve your chances of conceiving and having a healthy pregnancy. Anyway, I've bought the 'Getting Pregnant Plan by Michelle Adams e-book' from http://aboutgettingpregnant.com and after read it, it has a lot of information about boost your fertility and pregnancy stuff even if you have PCOS, hormone imbalance, after miscarriage, unknown infertility and irregular period too. Hope it helps.
2014-12-03 14:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anxiety can really work against you when you're trying to concieve. I know of two cases of couples who managed to concieve soon after they gave up all hope and started the adoption process (which means they were not so much under pressure to concieve any more).
So, taking a relaxed attitude is one thing that might help. I'd visit a doctor too, to check if there are any other problems that can be treated.
2006-07-19 01:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by tammers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess from a physical standpoint, all the stress could cause trouble.
If it's been 3 years and you've miscarried, are you seeing a specialist? You need a perinatologist. And maybe an endocrinologist.
If your local hospital has a support group for perinatal loss, I highly recommend joining.
I don't believe that God withholds things from us because we want them too much. Try to find a physical cause. If there's not one, look into the stress.
I'm sorry for your loss. May God bless you with the desire of your heart.
2006-07-19 00:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Contemplative Chanteuse IDK TIRH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the worry that goes along with wanting something SO MUCH can affect it.
Here is my spiritual point of view...
pray....God does hear you
Let go and let God. You will conceive when it is time for you to conceive.
Good luck and God Bless
2006-07-19 00:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by tab42104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. It took about 8 years before I had my son. I tried everything from surgeries to treatments. Nothing worked. I only got more depressed and my faith in God weaken. I had a sister that told me to get serious about the things of God and line my mouth with word of God. "Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh." I started to say what I was going to have instead of not going to have. I had to renew my mind with word of God. I fasted and prayed. I had to isolate myself from secularism. I choosed this but You must choose your way or what God has for you. I got pregnant in 2004 with a healthy baby boy who's now 22 months. Seek God. Praying without ceasing. Speak his word. The book of I Samuel about the story of Hannah is a great study.
went to 4 doctors and I was told to think about adoption or foster care. Go to a Christian doctor that specializes in fertility treatments or other specialties in that area. May God bless you and yours. God is a miracle worker! Praise him.
Shalom
2006-07-19 01:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Pashur 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry to hear this
if you believe in God then pray & don't stop
our timing is not always the same as God's
so be patient & in time your prayer shall be answered
if it's God's will
this happened to a friend of mine too, but she now
has a 4 month old son.
Best of luck & don't give up
2006-07-19 00:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is every woman's worry, even if a woman hasnt tried having kids they always think about it, if when the time comes if they will be able to have kids, i think coz you had a miscarriage then it means you have eggs to be fertilized so dont worry so much, God will help you, be faithfull and pray.
2006-07-19 00:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not from a spiritual point of view, but, if you are uptight, then maybe from a physical point of view.
2006-07-19 12:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's purely medical. See a doctor
2006-07-19 00:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by Atheist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋