Iam 19.I did a/l examination this year.When iam at school,when teacher gave a question to answer in physics or chemistry,when i came to know that some one in our class has done.I feel very upset,and do not get the correct way to do it?But when i am doing it alone i can do it?sometimes when i am writing a note i want to complete it before others do,it makes me very upsetcuz it makes myself to feel very jelasy about others.please help me to avoid this.cuz i do not like to hurt others?
2006-07-18 23:29:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
First of all it is good that you realise that you feel jelous.You must also realise that you are ambitious.Your sence of well being comes from what others think about you coz you want to come first in other peoples eyes.To overcome this first of all work with intigrity(realise what you feel) so that you know your self.secondly focus on long life time coz it is important what you are some twenty yaers afterwards and not on answering some questions and getting some grades which are imp but not duely imp.Thirdly realise that what ever you do should help your cause as well as other's.If you fight it is natural that you will get wounded.but if you work together you are going to get better results.
2006-07-19 00:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by just someone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fist of all answer yourself this question honestly: "Who am I?"
what are my needs
what are my wishes
in what i believe
what are the things that really matter to me
who are others and how are my relationships with them
what can i do to make thing better for me and for others
answer yourself to this questions...when you will feel the need to do so. now you can start thinking that what you feel then is nothing more than the natural instinct of competition between beings of the same species. and it's good to measure your capacityes with your colleagues. it's very good. so keep doing this . just never act disrespectfully. that's all.
and it happened to me too that when i am in a place with people to have a little delay answering or even lack of attention. this is normal because you have to pay attention not only to the problem itself but to the others too.
that's all for now, hope i cleared your doubts.
2006-07-19 13:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you now what no matter what you do or how your doing some one is going to get hurt just be your self and don't try so hard to make every one happy because it cant be done--- i hope i helped
2006-07-19 06:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't bother about other people, think about your future, your friend will not going to feed you. And, please be relax, because human is not perfect. When you think your self to perfect or perfectionist, it will make you crazy, believe me,......
2006-07-19 06:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by why me? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋