i just recently moved in with my b/f and i love him to pieces he's a fantastic guy, but living with someone is a different story than just dating them. I've noticed that he likes to look at porn on the computer alot. especially when I leave to go to work. He knows I know, and I've talked to him about it. he says its no big deal just an outlet when he's horny and I'm not around. He downloads pictures and saves them in files categorized on his computer. It seems harmless, but it still bothers me. and I think it is very juvenile. also when driving down the street he likes to make notice of good looking guys and point them out and say things like.. Oooo Hello.
he's constantly jerking his head to look at everything. its blantant and obvious. I just don't know what to make of it all. I have no sense that he is going to cheat or wants to cheat. but this behaviour is a bit disrespectful i feel. (gay relationship)I notice other people but i do not act as such. is it wrong to make him change?
2006-07-18 23:10:52 · 22 answers · asked by KAJ81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep.
First you need to move out and stop being so controlling and find another boyfriend because you can't change anyone.
The only thing that will happen is you both will end up hating each other.
What have you changed about yourself for him? Really, how long did you know him before you took such a big step?
2006-07-18 23:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through all your previous questions and the participants answers, you seem and assume not to lose this guy.
He is not going to propose for marriage. Therefore, he’s been acting like an animal.
And all his indications affecting your feeling . Maybe he wana have a break. Maybe saperate but can not admit it .
He is using u for sex. So, u use him too, till you meet some one that appreciate you and your emotional feeling and end up proposing.
Good luck nice lady
2006-07-19 06:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well porn i see nothing wrong with. its normal and fun thing for a guy to watch. so dont trip on that but him checking out guys. i think we have a problem. i dont know any guy who would do that unless they r gay. so yeah i think u need to check out his porn and c if there is any gay stuff on there if there is then ur man may be bi. most likely its hidden but if u find it then it shows u either hes bi or curious. either way im sure u dont want that. so yeah u have a problem. check his comp out and c. better yet check out his most visited sites. good luck
2006-07-19 06:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!...you have every right to make him very aware of the fact that you are in a relationship and it bothers you, he should respect your feelings...if he is so juvinile that he wont grow up and change for you. You should move on! H eshould respect everything for you...as im sure you would do for him!
good luck dude
xx
2006-07-19 06:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by El 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you live with someone you find out what they are really like.lt sounds to me like he's bisexual and has a problem with pornography. He obviously does not appreciate you or respect you sexually. l would totally shut him off sexually until he show's more respect for you and stops looking at porn. Sex is only for Lover's if he can't accept that then you should not give it to him.
2006-07-19 06:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man looks at porn? A man likes to look at other men/women on the street? And you don't like that? I suggest you become a monk.
2006-07-19 06:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by angrysandwichguy2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good time to be with him all the time without thinking of this, don't give up this relationship, and never think of changing him, otherwise, you won't love each other eventually.
2006-07-19 06:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by starbucks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-07-19 13:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're right it is on the juvenile side of things. what you are feeling is real. he should understand that this behavior of his bothers you and he better be willing to try to change or he'll be one lonely gay guy again!!!
2006-07-19 06:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by simms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honey...... guys look at porn and are more sexual then us...... and if he is making comments about men its ok ..... as long as he doesnt act immature and if he is acting like that ...... leave him and find a more mature guy then him because obviously you´re more mature then him ..... or make him change but only if he is being immature
2006-07-19 06:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋