This girl at my school knows I like her because I told her and all her friends told her. Everyone says I have a better chance with her in the looks department than this other guy that always flirts with her. He'll go out of his way just to be around her to tease her and flirt with her, but the thing is she responds to him. Then again, she also responds when I flirt with her.
Today when he was chasing her around and stuff, she runs up to me and is like "Save me!"
When we're both around her and I want to show her something by touching her hand, she lets me touch it, but when he tried to do the same thing, she didn't give her hand to him. But he forcefully took her hand and did the same thing I did, just to flirt.
Her friends say she likes me, but I'm not sure. If she likes me then why does she flirt back with him? Shouldn't she only be interested in me? Or is she playing games to try and make me jelous?
2006-07-18 21:56:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither!!
2006-07-18 21:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She likes the attention. It's very possible that she's interested in you though but the only way to find out for sure is to talk to HER not her friends. Friends of the girl you like are always butting into your business and most of the time just get the guys hopes up so talk to her! Just because you might look better than him doesn't mean you have the upper hand. It's more about who she finds more interesting. Don't just be a flirt. Try and get to know her as a person.
2006-07-19 05:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl really likes one guy, she has ways of letting all the other guys know she is not available. My guess is that your girl is either undecided between the two of you or she is just enjoying the attention. Right now the attraction she feels for you is just not strong enough. Step up your game. Flirt and tease her more, but let her know you won't share her with another guy. If she still keeps flirting with him, forget her and move on.
2006-07-19 05:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by godeep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. Girls L.O.V.E. attention. its actually flattering.
b. Yeah, by the look of it, she likes ya.
c. Dont try too hard. If u r a good being, she'll recognize it. a woman usually "gets" it when a guy comes on as a real person. Dont be cheesy like that other shmuck.
soo.. what i can say is....she likes u definitely. she also craves the attention from the other guy, but at the same time she finds him wierd sometimes...whereas she shares an understanding with u at a deeper level. i think.
so all the best dude !
wish ya luck.
2006-07-19 05:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think that maybe she enjoys getting attention from both of you & that guy. If this girl is serious about you, she wouldn't be going around flirting with other guys. If this girl is a decent girl, she wouldn't be leading you & tat guy on. Obviously this guy knew tat you are interested in her and yet he still trys to be funny to get in between you & this girl. Maybe you should have a serious talk with her & try to find out what does she want. But first, you have to ask yourself whether you are really serious about this girl.
2006-07-19 05:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lily.K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the attention from you both, but is soulnd to me like she likes u better. what u need to do is stand out from this other guy, just try somthing simple, like burn her a mixed cd of cool ( not gushy) songs. Or go up to her and say something nice, like "hey thats a cool sweater" and then immediatly walk away, this leaves her wanting more. Or just simple ask her to be your girl, this takes guts but she will like that u were so willing to stand up for what u want.
2006-07-19 05:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by lizardlover150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink she likes you but she also feels an attraction to this other guy, and that's probably why she flirts with him as well. she's still deciding which one of the two she feels more for. she's enjoying the fact that there's two guys out there that want her, its a nice feeling and maybe she doesnt wanna give that (the attention shes gettiing right now) up just yet
2006-07-19 05:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's could be interested in both and is just not sure, so she's flirting with both to get a better feel as to who she likes.
2006-07-19 05:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's young and wants to be desired by more than one boy. It sounds like she's into you, but she seems to like the other boys attention. Ask her if she'd like to go out with you. Then you can be jealous if she's showing this other guy attention. Until then, she's free to flirt, but so are you.
2006-07-19 05:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she likes playing games...you should just ignore her sometimes..let her go to you..girls like getting attention. if you has something for you, she will go to you..drop a few lines here and there..will also catch her attention.. ask her to a dance before he does..just stuff like that..but playing hard to get and ignoring her will have her coming to you in no time. good luck
2006-07-19 06:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by rf21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, she's jus playing around. girls sometimes flirt wit other guys even though they may like some other guy.....but don't get it twisted....jus cuz a girl flirts wit a guy doesn't mean she likes him. so i guess, you should jus straight up and ask the girl if she likes you or not. and be serious wit her.
2006-07-19 05:50:43 · answer #11 · answered by Kimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋