Either she changed or you didn't know this right from the start. But what I believed was she had a changed in her character. And started criticising everything that she thinks it's wrong in her opinion. Would you still love her or move on? It's kind of sad because she is someone I look up to and loves very deeply...
2006-07-18 21:45:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi guys thanks for replying. But I think I should phrase it differently to avoid misleading you guys. She is someone I love but we're not together. She's my ex-girlfriend. I still love her but I just found out that she likes to criticise on everything. Sometimes she'll criticise on her ex-boyfriend which I know it's not his fault given the way she explained the situation to me. I tried to get the point across to her that she shouldn't be criticising him and it wasn't totally his fault. She just couldn't stop. I'm disappointed...
2006-07-18 22:00:10 · update #1
It is natural after time together that you will find the flaws in each other. If you cant help but focus on these things, there might be a problem. But you will find this with everyone.
people are flawed, perfection is unattainable. But if you are able to overlook and accept their flaws they might be able to do the same with yours.
2006-07-18 21:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jon H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't the same as she portayed herself to be in the begining. Then maybe she wasn't being honest and you didn't get to know the real her until now. People don't usually change who they realy are they just don't let you see that side of them until they think your going to be there on a more permanant basis. When they think they've got you then the real personality shows up! Did you propose by chance?
2006-07-18 21:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Carolyn T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't care for people who think their way is the only way. But if you love her, it's hard to let go. On the basis of what you've said, I'd say so long. But when feelings are involved, that's hard. Weigh the odds and make your decision from that. Do you want to live life without her? Or do you want to see who else may be out there for you?
2006-07-18 21:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow first i would find out if this is true then make a move life is to short to take all the crap she has to give i would just move on never look back more fish in the sea you don't have to have a barracuda for a mate have her see a doctor maybe something is gone wrong with her female parts good luck i would be gone
2006-07-18 21:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..some people have to criticise other or other things to feel better themselves..it is a matter of insecurity, and a bad habit..you should talk to her about how you feel. Maybe she isn't aware of it, and need a reminder of how she talks..
John
2006-07-18 21:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like there's something about her which irritates you-otherwise you would't ask such a question. I think you should move on, there's plenty of fish in the sea!
2006-07-18 21:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by SALLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if I loved the girl. We would have to work through it. Definitely.
2006-07-18 21:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your ex then why the hell do you even waste any effort or spend any time on her
see, thats why you have an ex girlfriend and not a girlfriend
2006-07-18 22:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do your opinions have to be the same? , they are not fact ...so there is no right or wrong that we know of,
just what people THINK you dont like ladys that think ?
2006-07-18 21:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out! if you are under a constant barrage of criticism it can have ill effects on your self esteem, if you let it get to you, and you'll end up hating her for it.
2006-07-18 21:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋