frs i love thhis guy but our parent have some problems some yrs ago so they said we should stop the friendship. ask by a friend of mine. pls help her as u have help me God bless u. Thank u.
2006-07-18 20:58:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i know a guy and gal dating for 10 yrs got engaged two yrs ago, the engagement broke after disagreeing parents and then this year again got happily married with parents ultimately accepting the truth. so the moral is don't loose hope and have faith in yourself both of you , love conquers all
2006-07-18 21:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Explorer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure that there's no possibility that they are brother and sister. I know it sounds silly, but I'm from the country and have seen some foul stuff occur because parents aren't honest with their children. Then ask the parents why they have an objection. If the objection is legitimate, do your thing. You don't need parental consent to get married, if you're of age. They may be upset at first, but if they love their children, they'll have to get over it.
2006-07-19 04:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would depend on your age, if your teenagers and live at home with your parents your kind of out of luck for a few years. But if your adults living on your own then by all means be respectful of your family but in the end this is your life and you must make your own choice. Give due consideration to your family and why they are opposing the situation look at it from their perspective, they have only your best interest at hart. But like I said in the end you have to do whats right for you.
2006-07-19 04:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tommys SuzyQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend might still be young and has a whole life ahead of her. Best thing is to just weigh it out a bit and allow family to see her make changes in her life for the good. Sometimes when parents see their Children grow up too fast and hang out with what they feel are the wrong kind of people, they won't accept as easily. Take things slow.
Good luck!
One strict parent. ;)
2006-07-19 04:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
%90 of the love affairs- even the marriages are destroyed by parents or 3rd persons which makes me sick! Love is a very strong feeling which obeys no rules, and can create miracles. Just because your parents don't like each other, can't stop you from loving a person. Follow your heart, and I'm sure they'll agree to it somewhere in the future. But the key is : you have to be strong and have faith in your LOVE!
2006-07-19 04:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by SALLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents should be mature about their past problems and let you and him nake your own choices as far as love is concerned.If you really love each other then I would say don't let the parents and their problems stand in your way.Follow your heart and if it leads you to marriage then tell the parents to grow up and get over their differences.Tell them you really love each other and nothing is going to stand in your way.You can also tell them that you are the one getting married and you will do it with or without their support an if they really love you as a parent should then they will support you.
good luck and god bless you
2006-07-19 04:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to start with God dint bless me and second ly if you love each other and are old enough , the both of you should move forward with your lives and do what you wish , you perants have not got the right to tell you who to marry but they might disown you for your choice or may get over it
2006-07-19 04:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you,
If you below 20, follow your parent said.
If you above 20, ask your guy to come and talk with your parent, if he gentlemen he will do, otherwise follow your parent said.
2006-07-19 04:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jakarta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks > thanx 4 2
2006-07-19 04:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur parents opposes.........means u have to sacrifice or u have to run away..............but run away is not good option.......u will miss ur parents....
Try to confess them.
Bst Luck.
2006-07-19 04:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋