I had an one night stand with this guy, the problem is that he lives right across the street from me. I really didn't want more than one night with him because I have a b/f. I had been checking him out for months since I moved over here. The biggest problem is that I see him with his g/f all the time now. I never saw her until after we had sex. I think I'm jealous. We still speak to each other, but no one in our neighborhood even knows that we had this one night. What should I do? Should I tell him I'm jealous or just deal with it because I know he had a girlfriend?
2006-07-18 20:50:54 · 16 answers · asked by Sacha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI I just became serious with my boyfriend. I want dude across the street before me and my boyfriend became exculsive. I had to get out of my system to be any good to my boyfriend. Thats doesn't stop my from being jealous. And by the way, I am not and will never be anybody slut or hooker.
2006-07-19 06:36:21 · update #1
Leave it alone. You said it was just a one night stand. You're supposed to leave those with the ejaculation. When you become preoccupied with it, it becomes more than a one nighter. Besides, you said you have a boyfriend, and he a girlfriend. This is precisely why I don't recommend one night stands. It's not always easy to limit it to that night. There's a metaphysical aspect to sex. It's not like scoring a touchdown and forgetting about it. It's psychological and stays in your mind, whether you push it to the back or not. There's always the chance that it'll resurface and cause stress.
2006-07-18 20:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sucks for the people that your both are dating. If you really feel that way about him ( the one night stand guy) then its not worth it to be in a relationship with anyone. Your hurting yourself because your lying to your boyfriend. If you have feelings for him and you feel its right to just talk to this guy first (the one night stand guy), find out if he's dating this girl you seen him with. Chances are he probably is just talking to her so he can get his little one night stand out of her too. Or he could be dating her. Honestly do you really think this guy is worth all this drama?? And lets just say hes seeing this girl you seen him with and he leaves her for you and you leave your boyfriend for him, now dont you think hes gona do this to you too. This is just something that eventually will blow up and pray that no one hears about it.
2006-07-18 21:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just stick to your bf! Ignore that ******! I bet you your bf cares more about you than he does! Even though what you did was wrong just think that with your bf you can be happier and more comfortable! Don't let your bf find out cause you will end up alone and the guy from the one night stand will still be with his gf! Believe me I've seen that happen! Be careful!
2006-07-18 20:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ain't you just a bytch in heat!? Do you have any feelings for your b/f? Next thing ya know you're going to standing on a street corner (in hot pants) looking for a 'paid' date.....Stop being a s1ut and stick with one guy at a time......
2006-07-18 20:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u want more. But consider the pros & cons first. Are you ready to leave your bf for him? Is he ready to leave his girl 4 u? Or do u just want a few more "one night stands". Make up your mind about what u want first, then make a plan.
2006-07-18 21:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just deal with it, sounds like you are too imature to have a boyfriend or a one night stand
2006-07-18 20:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just carry on with your bf and forget about this fling..take it as though nothing as ever happen and u should not do such a thing again..come on..be faithful to your guy if you hope that he will be faithful to u in future..
2006-07-18 20:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me see you have a boyfriend and he have a girlfriend oh my god you made for each other.
you will be a very nice couple of cheater.
2006-07-18 20:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u have a one night stand..how u feel
2006-07-18 20:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by groover1_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants another one nighter.
you better keep it casual like that until both of you decide if there can be anything permanent.
2006-07-18 20:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋