2006-07-18 20:43:31 · 14 answers · asked by jayism21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because allof us in some way fear the unkown and change. it's often times easier to stay in a bad relationship than to leave for fear of being alone and the unknown. But, any good relationship is based on honesty...it shold be the foundation of every relationship. onme lie begets another begets another, and liars will always trip themselves up due to the fact that our brains archive memories, not creatiions. Besides, what's the point in being involved with someone that you can't trust or whom doensn't have enough respect for you or themselves to tell the truth in the first place. Honesty in all walks of life is always the best thing. sure, honesty sometimes hurts but not as much as finding out the truth later and finding out thwat you've been lied to as well...talk about adding insult to injury.
2006-07-18 20:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by cowboysminxxx 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
These folks have given some great answers, so I'll only say that to lie with the intention on preserving a relationship is a real contradiction, isn;t it?
2006-07-18 23:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by ddesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To preserve the relationship
2006-07-18 20:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sacha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women make us. If not we will pay, Example: Do these pants make my butt look big? There is no right answer for that! If you say no, honey. They say: They do too!!. If you say Yes, Honey they do, Well you will be sleeping on the couch anyway. No right answer!!!! So we just lie and say, My God Honey You Look Beautiful, You Look Fantastic! Can We Go Now? (under our breath, we say *****) I Love you honey, are you ready to go have dinner? No, I don't look right! ****: Guys, we can't win, so we lie, but we still can't get anywhere on time. Lying, don,t work but women make us! Good Luck My Friend! PS It don't get any better.
2006-07-18 21:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by basscatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c they are afaid of loseing the other person and they think if they lie then they will be makeing the relationship better without teling the truth they think there wont be a fight but really when you find out that they have been lying all along it turns into a huge fight and they will always lie again even when they say they wont!
2006-07-18 20:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the truth hurts and people who lie can't be trusted period. you will never know when you are getting the truth. remenber trust is all you have to keep a relation going lie and it's gone for ever for total trust.
2006-07-18 20:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't care much for the truth and they want the relationship and they think they will get away with it
It wasn't me
2006-07-18 20:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by jsbrads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they would rather lie, than be rejected, so it ends up happening anyway!
2006-07-18 20:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by healingman2911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase there relationship last longer if they are good liers
2006-07-18 20:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by who 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question.
2006-07-18 20:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋