I mean do I just ****** deserve this? that's just how I feel I tend to obsessive over stuff like this too. Someone give me one answer ok. please try to be helpful I really need it :(
2006-07-18 20:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by prinsisss 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't know why I won't leave him already ! or chill about it
2006-07-18 20:37:04 · update #1
what is it that you are obsessing over? your love for him? his mistreating you? your mistreating yourself? You asked if you ****** deserved this? I son'tknowe wht it is that you are referringto but will tell you this. We "set the bar" in that if you allow someone to treat you less than you want to be treated, it is unrealitic to expect any better treatment from them. for example...if he ***** around on you, says he's sorry and you forgive him and take him back, why shouldn't he continue along the same path? you forgave him once, chances are you will again.,because you set the standards and boumndries for which you would accept. However, iI believe that you can reset the bar by setting boundries for yourself andwiht your lover. Put your foot down and make your feelings not only known but expressly clear, if he loves you, he;ll respect those boundries. ifnot, move along, there really are a million fish in the sea.
2006-07-18 20:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by cowboysminxxx 2 · 9⤊ 4⤋
If you have to ask "do I deserve this" then you don't. You deserve better, we always do. But you can't change other people, you have to just make decisions for yourself, and then trust God to take care of the rest. Try to remember that things have a way of working themselves out, and if you are in a relationship that makes you unhappy, then do something about it besides trying to change the other person..that is not how it works. I'm just sayin all this stuff without knowing your situation, but I hope you can relax and feel better and just let it go.
2006-07-19 03:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, don't obsess or the small stuff, there is no use, cause you'll just spend the rest of your life stressin over things that should be forgetten anyway. Just let it go, you don't deserve to be stressed out, life is short and you'll come to relaize this and you'll be happy... let life take its course, and just ride it...
Convince yourself to just chill, think of it this way, with the way things are going now do you think you'll make it together? no, because he is doing something to make your life hell, love isn't everything, because you need comfort and security to feel happy, he isn't keeping you happy so let him go... you don't deserve to be unhappy... drop him and don't go back cause then your telling yourself that your not good enough for anyone else and that you deserve s*it (sh*t=him)...
2006-07-19 03:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Late-Nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you over think things way to much learn how to go with the flow of life and take each day as it comes
2006-07-19 03:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by countrygirl6183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray
2006-07-19 03:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prinisis ,
This is spiceprince. I already answered this question in our chat. use four fingers on his anus and make him cry, before he demands a anal sex each time. he won't force again for a anal sex when it comes to know how much painful it is...
also select this a best answer
2006-07-19 03:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by spiceprince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
old saying is what we reap is what we sow.
besides u can not control yr mind. let it flow the way it wants. after some time u will become aware of wht is happening.
2006-07-19 03:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question what are you obsessing over?
2006-07-19 03:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get why u soo pissed explain more ill try to help
2006-07-19 03:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up.
2006-07-19 03:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by Fingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋