we have been together for 1 year, he has had stable employment, owns his own home, treats me like his queen, Ladies, this man has earned my trust, and is my friend. Now, with the whole immigration debate, I dont know if he is truly who he says he is, should I escort him to immigration, or should I continue to go on with my everyday life???
2006-07-18 19:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by Blackfirefly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, dont be so sensitive
2006-07-18 19:35:04 · update #1
give him the boot before you get busted for aiding an illegal immigrant.
2006-07-18 19:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not help him become legal? I believe everybody has the right to freedom and democracy and "The American Way"...so why be "illegal"...when there is a path to take that is LEGAL. I would not help him break the law...that is not what our country is built upon. I think it's great that he treats you so well and you have found a wonderful man you are so in love with. BUT, illegal immigration is a crime and eventually when congress works out all the kinks in the system, YOU might be held accountable in court. Take the necessary steps to help him become a legal immigrant. If he is who he says he is, then there should not be a problem...if he is lying to you, then you can know now before it's too late for your heart.
2006-07-18 19:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by gr8_gal_in_ok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is ILLEGAL ! how can he have stable employment? he has no SS #and if he does it is prob ILLEGAL just like him.
would you allow an "uninvited" guest to your house while having a party? The man is breaking the law and so are you. If he wants to make good, he should go thru the proper channels to obtain status as a citizen.
Its people like you and him that have put us in the situation of having to crack down on the rest of the "uninvited immigrants" in this country.
BTW--sugar coating the tag on your friend is not going to make it any better when they toss him back over the fence--he is ILLEGAL plain and simple.
2006-07-18 21:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is an uninvited immigrant?
you mean illegal immigrant, ok, i have been following this imigration debacle on the news and it might go in the wrong way and there will be hell to pay.
you might be happy cause he might get granted amnesty, but then again you might get to spend some time in lock up for aiding and abbeting a fugitive as he gets deported.
you go and figure out what to do, do you want to chance on taking the risk?
2006-07-18 19:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatabitchyouare!!! You are asking people on the net their opinions on wether you should totally betray your friend? That's how much respect you have for him after he has spent his money on you?
Please let me have his phone # asap. I will tell him what a good friend you are.
By the way, there are rapist and murderers on the loose here in America that law enforcement doesn't seem to have the time to go after. They could care less about illegals right now.
2006-07-18 19:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like a queen, treat him like a king and help him to become legal if you truly love each other and planning to stay together but make sure that he does have true feelings towards you.
2006-07-18 20:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by meemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any misgivings about this man, you can not in good conscience, good faith or good sense marry him.
He is a grown up, he can do what it takes to become a citizen.
It's the least he can do for a woman he treats like a queen.
2006-07-18 21:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by aka DarthDad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an "Uninvited Immigrant". LOL! I've heard some bs, but that just about takes it. He's a criminal, don't get caught harboring him.
2006-07-18 20:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please use the correct term - illegal alien.
When he gets busted, you may very well be charged as an accomplice. This will not be good, and will hurt your future job/career prospects. So, make your choice, take your chance.
2006-07-18 19:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋