i mean it is a special feeling or well anyways what are some clues??/
2006-07-18 19:09:41 · 11 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. Being together with someone you love is an investment: sometimes you win big, sometimes you lose big...or you split the difference and come to live with it.
For some of us, the older we get, the choice between wishing for a fantasy to come true and learning to be realistic is starker than ever. Hopefully, we mature well enough to recognize the difference and learn that love is acceptance in more ways than one...even accepting that the one you love is no longer with you and that you have to move on. There are no guarantees in this life or the next.
2006-07-18 19:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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There is no such thing as "the one u are suppose to be with forever"
There is a way to make a good choice in partners and that is to do your homework on what kind of a person they really are, to be sure of what that person truly wants in life, and be honest about what you want.
Marriage takes more than just love. It also takes commitment and co-operation, if these are missing, so is the opportunity for a successful marriage.
Getting married "for the children" because some uncaring cad knocks you up is a bad idea.
2006-07-18 19:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not married, but i have seen, felt, and heard the signs of being in love. when you are together in person, you can't help but want to be in his arms and look into his eyes. when you are apart, you get butterflies and wish that you were together, he's who you think about when you first wake up. when talking on the phone, you can hear the love with every word that is said. these are real feelings that i some of my friends have felt.
2006-07-18 19:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forever is along time. Unless you're gonna live forever, I say ... enjoy the life you have now and welcome the ones who live thier lives as you choose to live yours:)
Ironically, the ppl who live as you do will be around for as long as you both share lifestyles:)
Now if you're talking about the magical ONE... LoL
Consider magic is science that isn't explained, science in and of itself is not beakers and bunsen burners. Science is understanding the inner workings. To understand yourself may give you a glimmer into the characteristics that "THE ONE" may exude; but more importantly if you are living as you choose, you will more than likely find many "ONES" living as they choose in kindred with your lifestyle choosing.
AND...
If one of the ONES finds you attractive and vice versa, you may have found "the ONE" with whom you can live and get physically intimate with. Forget about "Hollywood, and Romance Novels" etc. (Its called fiction for a reason) and live -
In your life reality
As you choose
Not looking
Open to sharing with those who choose to share a lifestyle that is kindred in enjoyment as yours.
As an example how much longer have your "good friends" lasted in your lifetime in comparison to "good lovers".
You may be surprised to find that the friends are longer in years than your lovers are; unless of course you have lovers who are and will always be with you forever as "good friends"; and to that we have come full circle and found the answer to the question that you asked:)
This question is asked generation to generation, and the answer remains the same; lifestyle compatability + sexual compatability = a lifetime of compatability:)
No zing or strings; just the science of nature. :)
2006-07-18 19:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Clint P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING lasts forever. Not a thing. people will always come and go, and there are just a select few that you will want to hold on to as long as possible.
2006-07-18 19:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't know and nobody knows. You either kind of grow together with each other over time or grow apart. Its a trial and error.
2006-07-18 19:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel that everything they do for u is good and when they help and listen to u when u have something on ur mind
2006-07-18 19:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to settle most times for someone you can tolerate the rest of your life.
2006-07-18 19:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There shouldnt be doubt if it was the real thing !
2006-07-18 19:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't until you marry him/her and find out.
2006-07-18 19:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋