im 16 and i think this 13 yr old is really hott (she doesn't look or act 13) i asked her out and told her if she said yes the farthest we would go is kissing im not some perv who would take advantage of her wat do u think about this
2006-07-18 19:04:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was 12 and goin wit a 16 yr old it worked out 4- 8 months and he didnt try nething wit me either but if u only like her fro her looks u shouldnt do it and 3 yrs is not that bad just be nice to her and respect her.
2006-07-18 19:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by daddygirl310 1 · 5⤊ 4⤋
You've got a bunch of dumb kids giving you dumb advice. Listen. A 13 y/o is not "hott." A 13 y/o is still a child. I have family members who are that age, and they are not allowed to seriously date - because they are still children! When you are 45 and she is 42, obviously you won't be able to tell a difference in the age. This is because adults do not go through the giant leaps in maturity that kids do.
A 42 y/o is basically the same age as a 47y/o...a 13 y/o is NOT the same age as a 16 y/o. There is a huge HUGE leap in maturity, thought-processes and mentality in those 3 years of growth in a child. I don't care who tells you it's a good idea - it's not - you would be influencing a girl who has not done the growing up you have. It's not healthy for her, and it's not healthy for you.
Think about it this way - when you want someone's help, do you ask someone who knows about as much as you do or do you ask someone who knows more than you do? You ask someone who knows more, right? Because what good is it to ask someone who doesn't know more? So don't take advice from kids and teenagers who are your age - listen to someone who is experienced and well-learned on the subject. Don't do it.
2006-07-18 19:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by chi bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no age for love,
anyways 13 and 16 isnt such a big difference when i was 13 im went out with a 15 year old,thats only 1 year older than you!
2006-07-18 19:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your a good person for not wanting to take advantage of her.
2006-07-18 19:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doood. call your self bad a$s, but that sis so cool that som eone else will not have sex. i dont even kiss, but thats still good. so what do you do? well im in that same situation. im 15, shes 13, she actualy wants intercourse, and im way tooo modest for that. so i tease her and play with her and such, but dont let it get out of hand. it skind of hard, but you should try it alittle.
2006-07-18 19:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats gross, why cant you find a girl as old as you? thats stupid that you want to date a baby.she was 12 a few months ago. she isnt even in high school, she is jr high, she wont be in high school for another year,and by that time you will be a junior!!! thats not cool dating a baby.
2006-07-18 19:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on son if you have the advantage to smoke her dont let it go man
2006-07-18 19:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do it caus ei can get into big trpouble know what i mean
2006-07-18 19:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Timothy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its good that you dont want to take advantage of her.
2006-07-18 19:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by pussylicker j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur a ***** if u cant get a girl your age and your sick
2006-07-18 19:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋