i am in a sticky situation you guys and i need honest advice, i have seen posts like mine on here a zillion times but my situation has a twist. an older guy has ben flirting with me and it gets deeper and deeper with every encounter. im old enough to know when someone is trying to f*ck me and at 1st it started out with him saying a few things to me and it escalated to him getting really personal with me, he is not cute by any means and he is old enough to be my dad..lol im 24! but he charms me with his attention and he knows exactly what to say to mak me feel good, he has a way with words and it has drawn me closer to him. it seems as if at times he tries to say stuff to see how i will react and he makes sure that every new time i see him he goes a bit further with the flirting. when i 1st met him i was in no way attracted to him, but as time went by he kinda pulled me into his web little by little, it sounds dumb but its true. i never flirt back , but the last time i saw him i did
2006-07-18 18:57:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now the time is coming around for me to se him again and i am nervous, he is married w/ kids but i am attracted to him... what should i do? OH AND I FORGOT TO TELL YOU HE IS MY DOCTOR.
2006-07-18 18:58:49 · update #1
Ask him if he wants to check your tonsils.
2006-07-18 19:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every girl is attracted to a successful man who shows her attention.
Look for a new Dr.
Inform him that he is crossing the line into an inappropriate area and that it is beginning to be a problem.
An affair with a married man is a bad idea any time.
Try to remember that a young attractive 'attentive' lady is heart candy to any man.
2006-07-19 02:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously interested. If you're just interested in the nasty, he might be a good ride. Without getting into my own personal details, let's just say that when the woman is ten or twenty years younger than me, I set the screws to her. If you're just interested in a fling, this man might give you something that young inexperienced men can't do.
Never be duped into thinking that he's going to leave his wife for you. He would never give up the financial losses to be with you no matter how much you rock his world or how much more attractive you are than his wife.
The other question that you have to ask yourself is if it would bother you to do the nasty with a married man.
2006-07-19 02:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by bolillo_loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new doctor, and leave this ugly guy alone. I would cancel the appointment or don't even show, (funny, I missed my doctors appointment today.LOL) If your emotions are getting stronger then, he is "saying the right thing" all he wants is sex. And your positioning yourself for trouble, If you continue, you have to face the consequences. what are they? well, falling in love w/(ugly)married man, who doesn't love you back (and you know it): Being blamed for wrecking a home: feeling like a hore:dealing with your self estem: possibility being pregnant: Remember " your old enough to know when someone is trying to f*ck you".
2006-07-19 02:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Advise = ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh honey..run and run fast. If he'll cheat on his wife he'll cheat on you, and you don't want a man like that, Plus, do you really want to be a home wrecker? It's not wrong to be attracted to him, most older guy that flirt with younger, attractive women are WAY manipulative, but by all means cut it off and GET A DIFFERENT doctor! The best way to nip this in the bud is to never see him again.
2006-07-19 02:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh yeah, get away from that as fast as your legs can carry you. He's obviously after something he doesn't feel he can get from his wife, one guess what that is. Anyhow, if you want to avoid being hurt you need to bail and not look back. That's the only advice I can give here.
2006-07-19 02:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, get out of it. He is trying to make you and you know it. That is a no win situation and could cause lots of hurt to everyone. You know better than this. Don't respond to him anymore and if I was you, I'd change Dr.'s and never go back there........
2006-07-19 02:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who ever he could be do not agree with him and spoil your life if you start having friendship with older people when you have your time you will be not able to enjoy that and you will be searching older people therefore be carefully avoid him. and if you agree with him you Will be a traitor for his wife and children. please find the right person for you. you don't think that he is behaving with you like this these kind of people will have experience so they will be doing this with many people.
2006-07-19 02:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by m.shahila m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man Doctors get all the chicks. I should of went to school longer.
2006-07-19 02:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your call, but an objective opinion is you should pull the rip cord before things go way sideways.
2006-07-19 02:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Rare Indigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are running through a face of lust... fact is that he will just screw your balls and hole... enjoy and leave. ultimately you too want his dick.... the sufferor will be you. coz after eating you, everytime he will not prefer you as his wife is also there... but for you once you take it you will opt for more.... and fact is that you'll will not settle... and you have life to go...so better stop and look for someone good....
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2006-07-19 02:05:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋