ill start off with this im 24 6'1 155 lbs.(pic of me is about 2 months old). Im not into people who are into looks only, but i know this is the real world, and that’s important ( I admit im not into overweight women my self)...so what im thinking is going on is that lean built guys are to women what overweight women are to men. does that sound about right?...what im finding interesting is that women I would not consider my taste seem to be interested in me but i have no interest back ( the over weight thing)..but the ones i do like ( the thinner built girls) have no passing interest in me at all. I just seen a pattern for a long time is this how women think? Thanks for your input.
2006-07-18 18:02:50 · 16 answers · asked by WHO_WHAT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u kno what i think it is dude, girls who are thin feel safe with guys that have a bit of chub cos it shows insecurity. a guy who has a ripped body, is probably coinfident with women and women think he is prone to cheating. fat chicks go after all guys though
2006-07-18 18:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are right in saying that it is not all about looks. Well..if you mean true love then there will be no more qualifications whatsoever. Yes..physical traits are the first things that will attract us to that person but it is still the attitude or what's inside that will make a relationship last.Do you believe in negative particles attract? If you think that just because you are thin, you deserve thin girls also then you are narrowing your options of getting to know the right one. The right one..might be the overweight before (c'mon losing weight is possible now..with all the diet stuffs, and surgical procedures ) and now thin. Hope this helps. :0
2006-07-18 18:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with you. I married a thin guy. When I was a teenager I was chased after by men of all shapes. I prefer tall thin guys. I find myself attracted to the same build all the time. Muscles are nice but guys have a tendency to over do it.
Try looking in different places for women, with similar interests to you. You are probably attracted to vain women, you should re-prioritize.
2006-07-18 18:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by momof2borninmarch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dear, that's not how women think. It might be that you're looking for the wrong type of women. The ones you've described sounds shallow. How about you trying to date a more meaty woman instead of focusing on the skinny ones. By the way, you're not overweight.
2006-07-18 18:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have notice a lot of heavy woman prefer thin guys. I guess so they can put them in there place. They are so big that they have the upper hand. But for me I truly like a guy with some muscles and firm not to thin. I am a slim girl and I like the guy to be bigger than me with muscles.
I saw your pic you look good though don't get me wrong. Your a cutie!!
2006-07-18 18:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. I'm not ur average girl but I like a variety of different shapes and sizes so to speak. I'm not into overweight men I wouldn't say but you look to be a nice build and good looking, maybe its something else? one thing I can tell you is that women are very much so into confidence. but, dont settle for anyone because they are attracted to you. It'll happen
2006-07-18 18:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true that most girls are usually into built guys who have a little of weight on them too. i personally can not get into the "skinny-buff". i'm more into the guys who are built w/ some a little extra weight on them. i don't want to feel like i'm hugging a skelton. its true what you say about most girls are not into the skinny-buff guys like your not into the overweight ones. but don't worry i do know of some girls who are totally into the skinny thing. so don't loose hope..
2006-07-18 18:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by noshoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn 6' 1 155 lol u skinny as hell bro geez. I like SLIM guys (like Kobe Bryant or Kevin garnett) but I don't like the emaciated look. at all . it's just not sexy to me.
But I guess it's personal preference. Don't worry though, there's somebody for everybody out there. maybe you need to broaden your tastes...some of those thicker females may have you sprung, you never know till you try!
Good Luck
2006-07-18 18:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by GoldenLocs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say that the reason I'm not attracted to really skinny guys is because I don't want to be the "big" one in the relationship. I guess it makes me feel like I'm the manly one. I hope this makes some sense.
2006-07-18 18:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, I love all sized guys and i am 5 ft 8, 23yrs old and weigh about 160 lbs. I am not fat and I am not skinny, more athletic than anything... Everyone is different... Hope this helps
2006-07-18 18:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mary W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly i wouldn't want to date a guy smaller that me but if there're skinny but not skinnier that me and very good built i don't care but also matters about the personalty of the person i like the inside more than the outside......but look who saying this a 13 yr old and i belive it i'm dateing a good built skinny guy.
2006-07-18 18:24:17 · answer #11 · answered by slipknot42146 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋