My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We get in the little flirty "no I love you more" fights, but there hasn't been anything serious. Is this normal? I just want to make sure that it isn't unhealthy in a relationship to not fight..
2006-07-18 17:58:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's good to have long periods without disagreements < I prefer disagreement over fight>.
However, once this relationship starts to mature, it is good to find solutions to disagreements ... hopefully, the disagreements stay small like, " I want to sit by the window " ... and you can slowly learn how to compromise and give to each other ... for this is the special inmate part of a good relationship is learning how to give and to receive.
2006-07-20 06:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fighting is healthy, and all couples do it. But just because you haven't yet, dosn't mean your relationship is doomed, however in saying this, you have only been together 3 months. I'm sure there will come a time when something will cause you two to fight.. but just enjoy each other and remember, NEVER go to sleep angry with the other person. Whatever comes up, deal with it together, work it out, talk and communicate as much as you can, after all that's what its all about.
2006-07-19 01:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by vicksta1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have been together for a short amount of time
But thing is for sure, relationships don't need to have fights to be successfull
In the contrary, those couples who fight a lot used to break up because they can't live in peace with each other
You should be happy that you two haven't get into fights yet
Just remember, the less fighting the healthier the relationship is
2006-07-19 01:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweet-girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't really a bad thing, but it depends on how long you've been in the relationship, if it's been a long time
and no fights at all, well that could be great or a little too
perfect, I wouldn't say unhealthy but just too perfect. If
the relationship is kinda new, and no fights then i'd say
give it time.
2006-07-19 01:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be...depends on the two of u...maybe one has a point and the other merely agrees...it could indicate a serious lack of interest in the other's affairs...i'm saying this cos once in a while there is bound to be a difference of opinion...sometimes a fight is like a hot iron which helps to smoothen differences and brings u to a common ground...but then again, 3 months is a very short time, so wait and watch..
2006-07-19 01:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Nisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still in the honeymoon phase of the relationship.
Usually, relationship starts to show some disagreements afterward. If you do not fight, it is not a bad thing... But 3 months are too early to worrying about that. Enjoy his company =)
2006-07-19 01:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by dbrhee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Yes and no. My bf and I have been dating for 2 years longdistance and the only arguement, well, not even an arguement was when he logged off of our IM because he thought I was getting uncomfortable discussing our relationship- it made me a little mad because he did something that immature, but it wasn't hard to forgive him. For the most part, we are verymuch so alike, and we just don't get into arguements, but if we do disagree on something, like what were doing for the night, we solve it on this basis, whoevers driving is deciding. I don't think its weird, you two just get along. But if there is something that you two are not talking about to not get into a fight, thats not good either- talk to your bf and see what he has to say about it.
2006-07-19 01:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by kmrelo04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it for 10 years... If no fighting then I would say YES it is unhealthy. 3 months is to soon to tell.
2006-07-19 01:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you need to fight for it to be a good relationship? A lot of people would love to be in your shoes. Fighting sucks, and it makes you miserable enjoy your experience and don't worry so much.
2006-07-19 01:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Leigh B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXX my husband and I haven't had a fight in three years. We used to butt heads alot but now have learned to compromise. We have been married 13 years and still are like teenagers on a date. Yes, it is normal not to have a fight. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-19 01:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋