I have a relationship that is just sex. We talked about it and we're not dating or anything - just friends, but mostly sex partners. Am I being really stupid?
2006-07-18 17:53:12 · 21 answers · asked by puma 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sound very uncomplicated. Enjoy!!!
2006-07-18 17:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's often called being "friends with benefits" or "hookup buddies". Plenty of young people do it -- it's a relaxed way to have some fun while you're lookiing for something more serious. Use precautions (condoms and the pil), and don't fall for each other. The biggest potential problem with this is if one of you falls in love with the other but it's not mutual.
2006-07-19 01:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex=emotion, connection and a relationship. Either get out of it now or make it into a proper relationship. If you don't get out of this, expectations might not be met, feelings could be hurt, hearts could be broken.
2006-07-19 00:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots and lots of people have had a relationship like that at 1 time or another.
If you and the other aren't having a problem with it, then it is OK.
If you are having problems with it then it is stupid.
You are the only one who really knows.
2006-07-19 01:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by schester3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with getting some relief, way safer then hooking up with randon people in clubs or something. just make sure as soon as you meet someone you think you might want to start a relationship with, you end it immediately
2006-07-19 00:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what i'm doing right now so no your not being stupid sounds like you 2 have ground rules set so have fun
2006-07-19 00:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by bigrigdvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it's perfectly fine to have a friend with benefits. get a couple more if u want
2006-07-19 00:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mary W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because sex is not as fufilling as true love.
2006-07-19 01:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by tropicalsunset245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have the same thing sort of. Just go with it and enjoy.
2006-07-19 00:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dumbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT BELIVE THAT YOU BEING STUPID, IF THAT WHAT
YOU WANT THEN GO FOR IT, BUT IF YOU ARE LOOKING
FOR MORE THEN JUST SEX. THEN MAYBE YOU NEED
TO LET YOUR PARTNER KNOW THAT YOU WANT MORE.
2006-07-19 01:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋