is this ok?

Question

im 6 yrs younger then my bf, and he says he loves me alot, and i love him to. but i was wondering if my frends are right in the fact that it wont work out? pls help, i have asked him and he never really gives me an answer.

Answer 1

It will work, as long as your not a God freak.

Answer 2

i dont' t think 6 years age difference really matters in a relationship...unless the younger person is under age 18.

Say you're 20 and he's 26...you're both young adults and what really matters is are you both mature enough to be together.

now, if you're 15 and he's 21, then sweetheart we got a big problem. There's not much you guys have in common unless he's really immature. And if he's trying to have sex with you DUMP HIM girl RUN THE OTHER WAY lol. I say stick to boys your own age until you are 18 or 19 yrs old

hope this helps

Answer 3

If he's under 25, then your friends are probably rightfully leary.

If he's under 18, your friends are probably right.

If he's over 100, your friends are probably wrong.

If he's 32, your friends are probably right, but for reasons you won't understand until 6 years from now.

If he's from Spain, you need to find some new friends to advise you.

If you think I have any idea what I'm talking about, you are incorrect.

Kidding aside - the older you are, the less "6 years" will matter.

If you are asking him: Will it work out? and he won't answer - that might be a red flag.

Answer 4

I think it depends a lot on how old you are first of all. I know they say "age dont matter" but lets be a bit realistic for a moment...it does matter if you are younger than 21...WHY? Well you see maturity wise it will affect you..if you have not experienced life as a single young woman...you will regret it later...of course woman are more mature than most men, so you and him might be a perfect match for one another...Also, i think it depends on how long you two have been dating..if its a fresh relationship give it time..you will know..If you have been together for a while then he should be able to give you a honest and sincere response..if not..maybe he has his own set of doubts...Remember your worst fear ..is fear itself..sometimes taking risks will make you happy in the end..

Best wishes hun!

Answer 5

Go placidly amid the noise
And the haste and remember
What peace there may be in silence?

As far as possible without surrender
Be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly,
And listen to others,
Even the dull and ignorant,
They too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
They are vexatious to the spirit.
If you compare yourself to others
You may become vain or bitter,
For always there will be greater
And lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as
Your plans, Keep interested in
Your career however humble;
It is a real possession in the
Changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs,
For the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you
To what virtue there is;
Many persons strive for high ideals,
And everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself, especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
For in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
It is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years gracefully
Surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture the strength of spirit to shield you
In sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself
With imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue
And loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline,
Be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe, no less than the
Trees and the stars: You have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt
The universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you
Conceive him to be; and whatever your labours
And aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life,
Keep peace with your soul.
With all its shams, drudgery and
Broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Answer 6

hey i'm in the same situation as u r right now and it doesn't matter what age u r if u 2 love eachother then let it be if u think age matters then u got a problem.... i'm 13 and my bf is 5 years older that me but we are in love... trust me it will work out stay together till u think it should end or till he does.

hope this helps... good luck!

Answer 7

As you grow older, you'll discover that age doesn't matter in a relationship, but until you get there it does. Assuming that you're still a teenager, it's quite often that age DOES matter. Normally a teenage guy dating a girl 6 years younger only wants to have sex.

Answer 8

You must be young ---because when you get to be my age, you really don't care about this stuff. Let me give you a little advice ---I dated a guy who was 6 years older than me the summer that I graduated High School. My friends pressured me into breaking it off with him before I went away to college. He was a wonderful guy and I have always wondered what would have happened if I hadn't broke up with him. Don't listen to your friends --listen to your heart and God ---age is just a number honey!!

Answer 9

Don't listen to others, if your happy now and you feel being with him is right, them go for it.

If your under 18 and he is 6 years older than you, I would be a little skeptical about the relationship. For most girls under 18 they don't really know what love is and are in their puppy love phase of life.

Answer 10

If you're 12 and he's 18, I'd say they're almost certainly right. If you're 60 and he's 66, I'd say there's no problem. What really matters is that where you both are in you're lives are compatible.

Answer 11

Depends on your age and maturity. When you're 40 with kids, it won't matter hold many years apart you are. Just for the time, it matters if you can handle the maturity difference.