my virginity?

Question

i used to lie that im not a virgin because i think it makes me look like a jerk. after i mistakely told one of my best friends, she gave me reasons why i shouldn't be shy about it. so when i tell people that im a virgin...THEY WILL BE LIKE IT'S A GOOD THING- I WISH IM ONE.... WHY DO THEY WISH SO ?

Answer 1

I am a virgin. I know many people that say the same thing "i wish i was one" but only because maybe they lost it to the wrong person. Nowadays, sex is so "natural" you see twelve year olds having sex...But you want it to be something to remember...It should be with someone you truly love..maybe even until ur married. It simply depends on you and what you believe in. Do not worry about what others thing, simply be proud that you have waited so long...trust me another virgin would be happy if she found someone that is a virgin...

Take care...

Answer 2

Well, when u r a virgin, u don't have to worry about getting pregnant or getting some girl pregnant
Also, a lot of young people feel better with themselves when they are virgins

You should be very happy and proud of yourself.
The fact that u r still a virgin means that u appreciate yourself
and don't be shy to say it
because as u can see, a lot of people wish to say that they are virgins too

Answer 3

I think bcuz some people feel like they should have waited for "the one"
I think being a virgin is a proud thing...definitely dont feel bad about it. I'm a virgin and I'm happy that I'm waiting. Plus some people are jealous cuz they made mistakes and want to be back on "virgin" status.....

Answer 4

Because with an active sex life comes fear of every thing (STD's and unwanted pregnancies)
when you actually do it with some people you end up regretting it and although you wish you could go back in time, there is really nothing much you can do but witness the number of sex partners you had increase
When you finally get to the point when you actually wish you had saved up for *the good one*

Answer 5

Go placidly amid the noise
And the haste and remember
What peace there may be in silence?

As far as possible without surrender
Be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly,
And listen to others,
Even the dull and ignorant,
They too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
They are vexatious to the spirit.
If you compare yourself to others
You may become vain or bitter,
For always there will be greater
And lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as
Your plans, Keep interested in
Your career however humble;
It is a real possession in the
Changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs,
For the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you
To what virtue there is;
Many persons strive for high ideals,
And everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself, especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
For in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
It is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years gracefully
Surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture the strength of spirit to shield you
In sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself
With imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue
And loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline,
Be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe, no less than the
Trees and the stars: You have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt
The universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you
Conceive him to be; and whatever your labours
And aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life,
Keep peace with your soul.
With all its shams, drudgery and
Broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Answer 6

the first time is a moment that your'e never going to get back so why not let it be special. i know this may sound cheezy but it's alot of people i know including myself that say they wish that they have waited. your'e not going to understand it untill you go through with it so my thing is why risk it on someone you think you love. or just to get it over with like i did. wait till you find love and try finding someone who's also saving there self and that special moment. i don't know how old you are but give yourself time don't rush into anything. trust me it'll be well worth the wait and you want have to worry about the regrets. Good LUCK!!!!!

Answer 7

Because losing your virginity is a very important step in a persons life. It is the only thing that you can give away and never get back.

Answer 8

Um. hold onto it. Save it for your spouse. I married a virgin and it was an honor. I have the utmost respect for him. I lost mine at 14, and I really regret it.

Answer 9

Maybe they are lying..losing virginity with the right person of course, is one of the tastiest experiences of life ;)

Answer 10

because it is special and we all wish we had waited til this or that, i use to do the same thing as you but it doesnt matter n e more cuz im married and he knows the truth!!